i am a 19 year old girl. and my mom left me and my sister when i was 10 and my sis was about 6~7. she has only seen us for 3 days on my high school graduation. but she left us with a mentally, physically and slightly sexualy abusive father. i have been battered down mentally and physically. i cut myself and cry alot even when he isn't yelling at me. he has been telling me how worthless i am and how i am not good at anything. but now i am in community college and he wants to stop paying. education is all that i have. i want to get a job but the one job i had i couldn't stop crying. what should i do? i am i weak? i want to check my self into a hospital. since my thoughs have been so sucidal. their is also a lot more to the physiological issues.
a parent-less girl seeking advice.
a parent-less girl seeking advice.
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hey...
it would be advisable for you to seek some help with a community counsellor or social service that can help with families such as yours. indeed physical, mental and emotional battering is not a very good thing to have in life, especially if it's constant.
you have my empathies but please be strong! no one is or should ever believe they are weak. you are one of the very strong ones, believe it or not; look, since you were 10, and now you're 19! kudos to you!
do you know WHY you cut yourself? how is your sister? is she alright? if both you and your sister are able to motivate and emotionally strengthen each other, it would help.
seek a mentor at work if you can or if you're all right to confide in someone you can trust.
and with those cuts, if you checked into a hospital, i believe they WILL help you! you must reach out!
it would be advisable for you to seek some help with a community counsellor or social service that can help with families such as yours. indeed physical, mental and emotional battering is not a very good thing to have in life, especially if it's constant.
you have my empathies but please be strong! no one is or should ever believe they are weak. you are one of the very strong ones, believe it or not; look, since you were 10, and now you're 19! kudos to you!
do you know WHY you cut yourself? how is your sister? is she alright? if both you and your sister are able to motivate and emotionally strengthen each other, it would help.
seek a mentor at work if you can or if you're all right to confide in someone you can trust.
and with those cuts, if you checked into a hospital, i believe they WILL help you! you must reach out!
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Hey .
well to beging with lret me just say , your strong .
you havent stopped doing what you have to (school) and being who you are , and trying to keep going . For yourself.
the opinion of a parent in us its a big deal because what they say makes and breaks our self esteem . but truth is no one knows us better then we know *ourselfs.
People have it worse that they havent even meet there parents.
but that is your past .
We have our past and our future and the only thing connecting us is the PRESENT.
so you have to decide to let gooo <333.
I consider you see proffesional help .
Someone can help you.
Its all about controlling your thoughts ,.,.. and you ARE strong remember that
hope i could help . sincerely Kamila (:
well to beging with lret me just say , your strong .
you havent stopped doing what you have to (school) and being who you are , and trying to keep going . For yourself.
the opinion of a parent in us its a big deal because what they say makes and breaks our self esteem . but truth is no one knows us better then we know *ourselfs.
People have it worse that they havent even meet there parents.
but that is your past .
We have our past and our future and the only thing connecting us is the PRESENT.
so you have to decide to let gooo <333.
I consider you see proffesional help .
Someone can help you.
Its all about controlling your thoughts ,.,.. and you ARE strong remember that
hope i could help . sincerely Kamila (:
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