My girlfriend and i were fooling around and were always super careful about me wearing a condom just to be safe, even in situations that dont really warrant one, just to make us feel better. We had just finished having very light sex (it was her first time) and i didnt pop her cherry or anything (at least there wasnt any blood) i was sitting on my bed and she was on top of me, my penis was inside her clit, but not inside her like having intercourse. The condom snapped at the very top of her clit when it pressed to hard against it (there was only precum in the condom). She got off immediately, and washed out in the shower, she is not on the pill, but also isnt sure if she can have kids at all, she doesnt get regular periods anyway, about 5-6hours later we got spermicide gel from a CVS and she used it twice. I dont think there is a high risk, but she is really scared, and im worried too, she complained about her "lower uterus hurting" but i dont know if thats stress related (she is under a lottttttt of stress at work) and im not sure if shes working it up in her head, and seeing things as far as symptoms go.
what im asking is what are my odds, i dont know what to thinkk
I think you shouldn't worry yet. Talk to her, ask her to go to doctor. Doctors are not bad! They can help.