I'm fixing to come out to my family,
any last minute advice would be
appreciated
Thanks
Telling them at a convenient time and in a loving way is usually best whenever telling anyone something that might be shocking. So gather the people you want to tell, in any number you feel comfortable with at a time, and sit them down. Calmly tell them you're gay. If you want to tell them feelings, do so, such as "I love you all," "I hope we can still communicate," etc. Keep it positive, even if the reactions are negative. If you get a reaction like, "This is terrible!" just respond with love. Say, "I understand if this is shocking. Please know that I love you."
If you're expecting some to be upset, know that not everyone is going to be upset. Or at the very least, not everyone is going to treat you negatively.
I wish you the best. You can do it!
If anyone reacts negetively just remember that this might be alot for them to take in. Give that person some time and let them come around to accpeting it. Don't force it on them too hard. Give it some time and then try discussing it again. I know that this is probably one of the hardest things you might do in life. Just remember things will get better :)
thanks guys
much appreciated