Well,
First of all, im 21 years old. Met this girl online, we got in really well, spoke every day, all day basically either by MSN or by phone.
Shes 17, I'm 21, lives a good couple of hours drive away, but we met each other a couple of times, and both really like each other, so we decided to give it a go. The distance is hard, but I'm sure we will work it out, thats not the issue.
But I recently found out she lied about her age, and it got to a stage where she wanted to tell me, but was scared to tell me because she liked me that much.
Well she eventually told me she was actually only 16, not 17.
One year I think... whats the difference? But for some reason I cant get it out of my head, 16 seems young, as I'm 21.
Obviously I was annoyed she lied to me, but because I knew people that knew her, they all thought she was 17 too, she just kept it like that, instead of losing friends. And to be honest, I do love her, cant bare to split up with her :-(.
Whats peoples opinions on this? the age difference, the age its self?
Also another thing, I am having trouble sleeping, and have for a month or two now. And it seems to happen when i go to bed, and know shes still awake and online? Annoys me why this happens but it does. Ill be on my PC, and I start to feel really tired, so I will go to bed at around 11PM. Fall asleep, but wake up around 12:30am-1am. I then lay there for an hour thinking what she's doing if shes still online. So i get my laptop, see shes online, and it angers em that she is. We have had many arguments over this, because I get angry shes still onlin gone 2:30am, and the fact its stopping me from sleeping. Think i have really bad emotional problems at the moment, and I dont want to go down the route of sleeping pills.
Can anyone maybe give me some tips on how to stop this? :S
Cheers for any advice, its much appriciated.
First of all, im 21 years old. Met this girl online, we got in really well, spoke every day, all day basically either by MSN or by phone.
Shes 17, I'm 21, lives a good couple of hours drive away, but we met each other a couple of times, and both really like each other, so we decided to give it a go. The distance is hard, but I'm sure we will work it out, thats not the issue.
But I recently found out she lied about her age, and it got to a stage where she wanted to tell me, but was scared to tell me because she liked me that much.
Well she eventually told me she was actually only 16, not 17.
One year I think... whats the difference? But for some reason I cant get it out of my head, 16 seems young, as I'm 21.
Obviously I was annoyed she lied to me, but because I knew people that knew her, they all thought she was 17 too, she just kept it like that, instead of losing friends. And to be honest, I do love her, cant bare to split up with her :-(.
Whats peoples opinions on this? the age difference, the age its self?
Also another thing, I am having trouble sleeping, and have for a month or two now. And it seems to happen when i go to bed, and know shes still awake and online? Annoys me why this happens but it does. Ill be on my PC, and I start to feel really tired, so I will go to bed at around 11PM. Fall asleep, but wake up around 12:30am-1am. I then lay there for an hour thinking what she's doing if shes still online. So i get my laptop, see shes online, and it angers em that she is. We have had many arguments over this, because I get angry shes still onlin gone 2:30am, and the fact its stopping me from sleeping. Think i have really bad emotional problems at the moment, and I dont want to go down the route of sleeping pills.
Can anyone maybe give me some tips on how to stop this? :S
Cheers for any advice, its much appriciated.