im 20 years old and i too have dark labias but its not only on one saide its both of them and both of them are oversized my husband loves my body but i don't feel as sexy with dark labias,what do you guys think? %-)
another thing i think about is why do some girls have nice labias like before puberty?do they make them like that or are they just like that?
another thing i think about is why do some girls have nice labias like before puberty?do they make them like that or are they just like that?
alright well i am sixteen and have the same problem that has been explained above. i also have a boyfriend who is eighteen and is quiet experienced..we have had sex many times and he has never said a word although im positive he has seen it. the only thing is that after sex it does hurt but after a day or so you'll be back to normal :-D . so try not to feel self conscious although i find that hard as well and if you cant get past it then go see a doctor to see what they can do to help make it more ascetically appalling. hope this info helped.
ok first of all this is coming from experience...im 30 years old and have had pleanty of escapades and am now married. i also have very large labia. when i was young i thought as you did that i looked gross and no one would want to get close to that wrinkly streached out nastiness... but i got enlightened... first of all some men actually prefer it (same as with big breasts or small ones) and secondly all women are different. if it causes discomfort i can see having it snipped but if not, your normal and its ok and attractive and dont cut anything off just because you THINK someone else might like it better that way. and by the way men look at themselves and do exactly what you are doing critiquing themselves...for you first timers the guy if a virgin as well is just as selfconsious as you are...im not saying do it or dont but you dont need to worry so much about what they expect...lay back and enjoy
omg thank god someone posted this i am 13 and the same thing has happened to me. i thought i had a disease and that i was going to die. yet i still kept it a secret. thank god 4 internet. i started researching to find out what was wrong with me and this poped up. i was thinkin i had to cut it off or somthing.
Hey, i'm like this. I'm 16 going on 17 and a virgin.
My right labia is a lot larger than the other and it is really horrible to look at. I never wear skirts or swimming constumes because i hate how it looks and i get self concious. I'm seeing someone i've known for about 4 years, and i know he wants to start sexual intercourse, but i'm VERY scared that he will freak out at me about it and not talk to me again, or worse - tell his friends.
I really don't know what to do, i'm scared about it and i don't think i can confront my mum or a doctor. Its awful to feel this way, so i thought about having it cut down to size - but thats the problem as to where i won't go to talk to a doctor about it.
Any help?
My right labia is a lot larger than the other and it is really horrible to look at. I never wear skirts or swimming constumes because i hate how it looks and i get self concious. I'm seeing someone i've known for about 4 years, and i know he wants to start sexual intercourse, but i'm VERY scared that he will freak out at me about it and not talk to me again, or worse - tell his friends.
I really don't know what to do, i'm scared about it and i don't think i can confront my mum or a doctor. Its awful to feel this way, so i thought about having it cut down to size - but thats the problem as to where i won't go to talk to a doctor about it.
Any help?
i'm a 15 year old virgin and i have the same thing.
my inner labia sticks out of my outter labia on the right and left side, both are discolored.
i thought my vagina was abnormal which scared me lot because i thought i'd have to die a virgin due to the fact that i'm ashamed of myself!
my inner labia sticks out of my outter labia on the right and left side, both are discolored.
i thought my vagina was abnormal which scared me lot because i thought i'd have to die a virgin due to the fact that i'm ashamed of myself!
i'm fifteen also. i actually have two oversized labia, i've had oral sex and have been told that my vagina is "weird". you had no idea how self conscious that made me! :$ but i've also been told that it's fine. i have been worrying for soo long that i'm weird and something is wrong with me. i've looked around for any other treatment except surgery...which is disappointing 'cause i'm VERY embarrassed about it. i'm so glad i found this website because now i know it's not just me, many women have it. i also know now that it's normal :-D so now i don't care that much...i'm just unique (;
Hey Girls,
I am a married man, and by accident came accross this page so I tought I should comment on it.
You are looking at your bodies completely different than a man does, but I a can understand that you are in teenage when all this sex things poping up.
O.K. about your labias, for a man it is usually beautiful if it is small if it is big if it is even if it is not even and if it dark of if it is not dark does not matter much at all.
My wife has big dark labias and you know how much i like to play with them?
If a guy tells you that it is strangege or ugly than the guy is stupid and he is just searching experience because he has none, and he defenitely does not have feelings for you beside want to take you in bed.
A normal man who is sexually matured adore all the different labias and he is focusing on loving his woman, and 100 percent he will be satisfied with her body if he fell in love with her.
Another remark your attitude is much more important for a man in sex than your labias or small or big breasts or other things, I mean if you want the man teasing and playing with him is waht can make him crazy, using nice underwears and showing that you really want him phisically that is waht will turn him on, if you can enjoy sex (of course it is up to the man also) really that is waht a man enjoys, but you know for all these things the basic setting is to being really in love with each other, otherwise sex never will be completely satisfactory for any of you.
Guys ususally just wants sex without feelings, but to satisfy a woman takes more than just jump in bed. man works different than woman and most of them expect you to enjoy sex as he is doing because he has no much idea about woman and defenetly nothing about love.
He is just experimenting and selfish.
O.k. I could write too much but I have already said what needed, do not ever think you are ugly or your labias are ugly, no matter who is saying that, you are beautiful, and you the real love will adore you, and praise you, believe me, nothing else worth anything anyways but love.
I am a married man, and by accident came accross this page so I tought I should comment on it.
You are looking at your bodies completely different than a man does, but I a can understand that you are in teenage when all this sex things poping up.
O.K. about your labias, for a man it is usually beautiful if it is small if it is big if it is even if it is not even and if it dark of if it is not dark does not matter much at all.
My wife has big dark labias and you know how much i like to play with them?
If a guy tells you that it is strangege or ugly than the guy is stupid and he is just searching experience because he has none, and he defenitely does not have feelings for you beside want to take you in bed.
A normal man who is sexually matured adore all the different labias and he is focusing on loving his woman, and 100 percent he will be satisfied with her body if he fell in love with her.
Another remark your attitude is much more important for a man in sex than your labias or small or big breasts or other things, I mean if you want the man teasing and playing with him is waht can make him crazy, using nice underwears and showing that you really want him phisically that is waht will turn him on, if you can enjoy sex (of course it is up to the man also) really that is waht a man enjoys, but you know for all these things the basic setting is to being really in love with each other, otherwise sex never will be completely satisfactory for any of you.
Guys ususally just wants sex without feelings, but to satisfy a woman takes more than just jump in bed. man works different than woman and most of them expect you to enjoy sex as he is doing because he has no much idea about woman and defenetly nothing about love.
He is just experimenting and selfish.
O.k. I could write too much but I have already said what needed, do not ever think you are ugly or your labias are ugly, no matter who is saying that, you are beautiful, and you the real love will adore you, and praise you, believe me, nothing else worth anything anyways but love.
i am 19 yrs old.. ever since i was 10 my labia has been growing and changing color.. i didnt really have a woman in my life to talk to about girl problem... i am an only child raised by my dad who is a mechanic... i just got my first bf 5 months ago and even though i plan on waiting for marriage to have sex...i worry that on my wedding night.. when my husband first sees me.. he will be disgusted by my labia.. i didnt want that to happen ive been trying to find out wat was wrong with me and thank the lord i found this site.. now i kno that wat i am going though is normal. i have been worrying about it for months and tonite i couldnt sleep til i found out wat was going on.. so here i am at 3 am lol everyones input, the girls and especially the guys has been so helpful i think i can sleep soundly tonite and finaly make that appointment with the gyno... might even see bout getting it chopped a bit idk.. anyway thanx again
To all the girls and women out there reading this! i would like you to know my opinion on this subject. Firstly i would like to say that i think grandmas advice to go and get your vagina's sniped before it is to late is completely ridiculous! You are beautiful and perfect just the way you are, the way you were born! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! I also have large lips and still to this day am embarrassed about it! I'm 19 years old and both of my lips hang pretty low and are also darker! Though i am self-conscious about this i try not to be because i know i shouldn't be. Every woman is different. Some women have larger labia some have tiny ones, to say that one is more gross than the other is completely stupid. I have had friends talk to me about how gross women with big labia are, not knowing that i am one of these women, and it has really hurt. But times change, though i seem to hear a lot that small labia are what is most attractive, does not mean it will always be this way (nor does it mean that everyone actually thinks this!). For example when my mom was a teenager peers in her high school would call her N**** Lips (FACIAL) because she had large lips, she was ridiculed for this! Now Angelina Jolie is one of the most attractive women ever and what people talk most about is her amazing big lips!! So maybe is 15 years big lips in other places will be in?? Who Knows? What i'm saying is is that you should not be ashamed of have big labia or different sized labia for that matter! It is as normal as having any other sized labia! And guys/girls who say they like the smaller "Cleaner ones" are just dumb! Having big labia does not make your vagina less clean! in fact it likely protects the inner part better! I feel that this is similar to the issue of circumcision with men! I have been with both types of men and really it makes no difference and none of my boyfriends have every cared about my big labia, They have loved me for the person i am. For women and girls who find it uncomfortable i also hear you, i find when i walk and wear tight jeans sometimes my skin there gets pinched and it is rather uncomfortable! If it really bothers you for this reason you can always consider surgery, but if your just worried about looks it really doesn't matter! people will love you for who you are and if they don't than their not someone you want to be with!! Thanks for reading and i really hope this helps and gives you a booster of self-confidence!
well im 21 female virgin ... i have a problem to my labia on both sides is assymmetrical and having a very much pain to me ... because of this, i have some thinking to surgical advice....what do u think is really good idea... please help me...
Hey ladies. I am 21 and I also have a enlarged labia majora. It is only on one side, and it is completely normal. I had the same reservations that you all have when I first took note of the difference. If you are subconscious about it around your partners, dont be. They wont care, and if they do, they're assholes to say the least. All the men I have been with havent said a word about it. Dont sweat it, be confident in your own body and know you are beautiful!
im 16 & i have that same prblem. my left labia minora is noticeably larger than the right & im uber self concious about it.
how much is it to have a gynecologist or whatever doctor do it? cause i dont have money for like a plastic surgeon.
it doesnt need much done i just want them even.
thankss (:
how much is it to have a gynecologist or whatever doctor do it? cause i dont have money for like a plastic surgeon.
it doesnt need much done i just want them even.
thankss (:
omg! I thought i was the only one! I'm almost 17, and sooo embarrassed about it, i haven't told anyone, i thought it was because of a bike accident when i was younger. It's most comfortable if i tuck both labia minora over each other underneath the labia majora. uhh that sounds like a weird alien thingy. mine are both longer, and purply brown on the ends, with not that much sensitivity in them. I really want to have sex but i'm so scared they will be like whaaaa? , i've only had one sexual encounter and he didn't notice anything though. i'm so glad there are other girls with this! i'm not alone! do you have to have full on surgery to get it to 'normal', or does the doctor do it at her practice?
Glad to know this is normal.
I'm 16 and a virgin... I was totally worried about this. I thought I had cancer or something. (My grandma has cancer down there!) I'm a very private person and so I didn't want to tell anybody, let alone see a doctor.
I want to enlist in the military and didn't know if this could potentially stop me or not. =/
I'm 16 and a virgin... I was totally worried about this. I thought I had cancer or something. (My grandma has cancer down there!) I'm a very private person and so I didn't want to tell anybody, let alone see a doctor.
I want to enlist in the military and didn't know if this could potentially stop me or not. =/