I can’t understand what is happening with me. Until recently I had a huge sexual desire. I was in a mood to do it always, no question asked. I have been in a relationship for five years and for the last month I don’t feel like having sex anymore. When I think about it, it’s cool and I want to but once we start, I just can’t move. I block. I can’t seem to understand what could be the probable cause. What is worse…..i can’t reach an orgasm even when I have sex. What to do?
I think the problem is in your head not physical. You may feel saturation from your relationship, maybe you don’t feel like having sex with your boyfriend anymore. Do you think about having sex with somebody else?
Also, you could be stressed from work or studying. This happens to me from time to time when I just can’t take it anymore and don’t feel like doing anything. I think you need to think through what is going on in your mind and with your feelings. How satisfied are you with your current situation?