My husband's penis has a pronouned glans ridge and the rubbing in my vagina makes it sore. We have used all sorts of lubrication but it gets uncomfortable quite quickly when he is thrusting. He moves a long way in and out and speeds up to get an orgasm.
He can't stay in me long before I have to get him to withdraw. I have been examined in there by my doctor and he said that I am very heathy and it looks really good so I am seem to be normal.
We have tried just having his erection in me for long periods without thrusting, hoping I will get used to it but it hasn't helped.
Has anyone else had this problem?
Do you get wet make a lot of lubrication?
I get very wet so that is not a problem. My doctor even noticed how much lubrication I made when he examined me. I was aware of it to and I think it was because he is only male apart from husband to make a thourough inspection.
Just lying there with my knees up and spread apart.... I hadn't done that for anyone else and although I was anxious beforehand he was very understanding and I found it quite exciting.
It isn't easy, I can imagine what is was like for you. The situation is interesting for the doctor too. I used to flat with a young doctor (we were both virgins) and he said how it was necessary to be utterly professional when doing this sort of examinination.
So the problem is not you. How big is your husband?
He is a big boy, 6'2'' tall and athletic build.
Why?
I meant his erection. If he is bigger than average and your vagina is firm and tight he might need to be more gentle when thrusting, especially if he gets very vigorous before cumming.
The glans of his penis is quite big and it sort of has a ridge around it.
He has a lot of scar tissue and tends to have to thrust rapidly and with long strokes. Sometimes his erection comes right out just before his ejaculation and he is so excited that he can't feel where to get back in and I quickly grab his shaft and put it in place for him.
Obviously it can be a bit much wear and tear for me because he doesn't actually have any sensitivity in his penis and works quite hard to cum.