Wow after reading everyone's Comments I am so relieved to know I'm not the only women with this problem Mine started years after shaving so I stooped my doc told me to try and wax waxing is better then shaving (FYI) because she had the same prob and it worked for her then she told me to make sure everyday twice a day to Exfoliate with a puff in the shower with hot water So I been doing that it has helped out some what she also told me to use tea tree oil and it feels nice and soothing but does not help with dark marks and i still seem to get ingrown s. its way better then it was before But I'm still not happy when I look in that area it makes me very insecure when I am intimate or in a bikini the ingrown hairs are the worst but what they do after is where we suffer from dark marks and scars and not only that but they hurt its in such a sensitive area I want to treat it and prevent future break outs and it would be so nice to get rid of the dark marks and scars to is there anything that works i'm sick of spending money on products that don't work help???? :-)