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I'm just wondering if using the pull-out method is really satisfying for the guy, or if it feels that much different from ejaculating inside the girl. Any thoughts?
if i understand the question correctly i dont think it matters for him. but you do know the pull out method is very very dangerous if your not on BC.
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First and formost... the pull out method is NOT birth control.. it is like Russian Rulette and very dangerous. It does nothing to protect either of you from Sexually Transmitted diseases and infections and also is not effective at all to preventing pregnancy.

So whether or not it feels satisfying for him is not important at this point in time.. what is important is that both of you should take care fo your health and futures by getting on a reliable birth control method as well as protection against STD and STI.. plus you both should get tested now and then in another 6-8 months to be sure.

You did not mention either of your ages OR if you use Birth Control... but without a barrier method of protection like a condom you will risk all sorts of bad problems, many of which are NOT cureable and you will carry for your entire life and also be conagious yourself.

Unsafe sex is just not worth it, your future depends on it.
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well,from my own view its not safe and very dangerous for u if u are not ready to be a mother.although to some guys its very difficuilt for them to pull out and when they tend to do so it might be probably late coz he might ve dropped a little before pullin which might lead to unwanted pregnancy.so i will advice you to always use protection.CONDOM IS NOT BAD AT ALL BUT SAFE U THE RISK.
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Apart from the previously mentioned risks sometimes it can be a very enjoyable way to finish the act for the visual stimulation of seeing the ejaculation. Most adult movies will demonstrate the climax this way and it can be a thrill in and of itself. I like both ways equally and will climax inside and outside depending on the mood and the heat of the moment. Pregnancy is not a concern for us thanks to her tubelectomy.
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If you are on birth control then there is no reason for him to pull out. If you are not on birth control then, as previously mentioned, pulling out is not a reliable way to prevent pregnancy. That being said, pulling out can be fun if you want him to cum on your body somewhere (like your stomach, chest, face if you're into that, or butt if he's doing you from behind), but it also feels amazing getting off inside of your female partner.
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Can noone give a straight answer on here? As I recall she wasn't asking about BC or how safe it was the answer to your question coming from a guys view is it does feel different but its more on preference to wat u like on what feels better for that guy hope this one actually answered your question
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Way to go sants, lol . your right the question is not about birth control, see how ppl strike up convos' that will lead to a debate lol. answer to the real question, it prob don't matter either way if they pull out or stay in as long as he cums. its all good, and just depends on his preference. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you if he pulls out.

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this is not my text, but being a guy this is exacly how I feel about it:

 

As a guy, I think I can speak for all males regarding this question. It generally is not satisfying to me, and to some extent, the women I've been with, for several reasons. First, I have to remain alert and pay attention to my body so I can pull out in time, rather than just "letting myself go" so as not to have to worry about it. Second, in the moments before ejaculation, our bodies are designed to want to thrust deeply into our partner so as to make sure our semen is deposited in a manner to aid in conception (the whole idea of intercourse from a biological standpoint)--which is opposite of wanting to pull out at this time. Pulling out kills the moment by stopping stimulation at a time that feels the best to us--and makes for a weaker, less satisfying orgasm. Even though we may still ejaculate--as once the process starts it cannot be stopped--the feeling is not the same. (A considerate female partner will immediately take over stimulation of her man's penis as soon as he pulls out. This helps in offsetting the loss of vaginal stimulation to the penis before and during the man's orgasm). Timing is everything--pull out too soon, and it may actually prevent us from having an orgasm. Too late, and semen may already have seeped out before we realize it. Just as importantly, as for how this affects the woman, if she is approaching orgasm at about the same time, pulling out of her stops her stimulation, as well, and can kill her orgasm, too. (A considerate male partner will try to make sure his woman has had her orgasm while he is still inside of her, so at least she can have a "good" orgasm).

 

Lastly, some of the women I've been with have said that feeling me ejaculating into them brings them to a more powerful orgasm--so by pulling out, this deprives them of this experience. The way I look at this, it is less satisfying for both partners by using the pullout method. It is not "all about the guy".

 

 

 

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For me, pulling out actually feels about 1000 times better than finishing inside the girl. Men are visual. When I was young and learning how to masturbate, I always did it with the lights on. When I had my first orgasm, I got to see the climax and it was very satisfying to see it spurt out as I was climaxing. 25+ years later it's still the same for me. I've been married almost a decade and having an orgasm inside my wife still feels like masturbating in the dark. To me an orgasm isn't really a good orgasm unless I get to see the white stuff coming out in spurts at the end. I don't think it's degrading to the woman at all. I think it's really sexy to erupt all over her stomach at the end and then clean her up afterwards. She agrees that it's a lot easier to clean up that way as well. If I do it inside of her then it oozes out of her all night and she has to wear a pad to bed.
And it's really pretty safe providing your guy can do it correctly.

It worked for me up until I got my vasectomy. And even though pregnancy is no longer an issue I still prefer to pull out rather than leave it in at the end. Don't let other people convince you that all guys would rather do it inside you. That's just not true for everybody. As long as you don't have to worry about STDs pulling out is a wonderful way to end a lovemaking session. And if you're really worried about pregnancy you can always go on the pill or other forms of hormonal birth control plus have him pull out for extra insurance. That would be a win-win situation for both of you.
Hope that helped.


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All these frigid people griping about pulling out. Takes a lot of Gaul to claim its safer to ingest/inject synthetic hormones. Unprotected sex feels 10x as good. And orgasming inside feels another 100x as good. There's the honest answer. The way nature intended provides the highest reward for both partners to offset the risk of pregnancy.
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The head of my penis becomes so sensitive at the point of orgasm that if I don't pull out the orgasm will stop from the irritation. For me pulling out feels great, not pulling out is unpleasant.
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pulling out is not satisfying to a women. When I was a teen I hooked up with a guy who would pull out everytime he was with a girl. I started to feel a good sensation inside, but when he pulled out, I didn't feel satisfied. I did not come or have an orgasm. He did finish himself off, but it might not have been as satisfying for him. Men are dumb to think that pulling out prevents pregnancy. It doesn't. All pulling out does is prevent you from having that orgasmic moment for you and also for the women. I did hear of one girl getting pregnant even though the guy pulled out everytime.

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Not everybody is the same. I'm a guy in my mid 40s and I've always preferred pulling out at the end. For me, it just feels better to be able to shoot it all over her stomach or back at the end. And it doesn't feel as good if I leave it in at the end. Plus, I tend to ejaculate a lot, so it's quite the visual experience to watch as 5 to 10 pretty healthy spurts shoot out of me and all over her. If I don't pull out, then it just all oozes out of her and all over the bedding floor, and down her legs when she gets up afterwards to go to the bathroom. It's easier to clean up afterwards when I pull out.
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Had sex relying on pull out method for 3 years and never got pregnant... He came inside me once cuz we wanted it and i got pregnant so yes pull out method is efficient but the guy needs to know how to do it... Dont listen to ppl who tell you its not reliable... Its probably because their guy doesnt know how to pull it out...
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