Hey,
I've always been really good at understanding how girls think and I've had about 5 girlfriends. I just got to college and I really love the girlfriend I have now but were trying the long distance thing. This girl is SO DIFFERENT from every other girl ive met and I dont understand her honestly. Like she literally goes off and does whatever she wants with friends and like doesnt text me and like doesnt tell me important things like if guys are hitting on her. She isnt like stupid though, she knows these things are important. So I would think that she like purposefully ignores me or like purposefully doesnt tell me things so that I like get jealous or whatever but there literally is no bad intent in it. Like we have gotten into serious fights where weve gotten really close to breaking up for good and she literally has told me that she like "needs me" and like "cant live without me" and like I know she really means it but she literally does things without even thinking about what i would think or about me and like completely forgets about me when she shouldnt. I dont really get her at all and its hard for me to like deal with it all because I love her but it just is so much to deal with because she just mindlessly does things to hurt me and I know she really does love me. Idk like its weird and I need any advice I can get. Seriously anyone with even a slight thought on it would greatly be appreciated.