Hey everyone, I'm new to this site. Just wanted to post an issue and hopefully get some answers.
So Im dating this girl for like a month and things are going well. But when we make out, im easily aroused. im 19 and this is my first girlfriend. i find myself getting erected easily and on a couple occassions after we hang out(amde out), i find a bit of precum in my boxers.
is this normal? what do i do? its embarassing ahhh
So Im dating this girl for like a month and things are going well. But when we make out, im easily aroused. im 19 and this is my first girlfriend. i find myself getting erected easily and on a couple occassions after we hang out(amde out), i find a bit of precum in my boxers.
is this normal? what do i do? its embarassing ahhh
There is nothing wrong with you, your just reacting sexually to your gf.
Making out or foreplay is the prelude to intercourse and precum is the prelude to ejaculation.
Have to two consumated your relationship yet or at the beginning stages?
Making out or foreplay is the prelude to intercourse and precum is the prelude to ejaculation.
Have to two consumated your relationship yet or at the beginning stages?
Im not quite sure what you mean by consumated? But nothing sexual as occured, just holding each other sitting really close and making out.
thanks for the reply, it really makes me feel at ease. im assuming that since im all new to this it will just blow over? like if we end up doing it, this will no longer be a problem because it will have blown over? i hope?!?
thanks for the reply, it really makes me feel at ease. im assuming that since im all new to this it will just blow over? like if we end up doing it, this will no longer be a problem because it will have blown over? i hope?!?
Sorry, consumated means, intercourse, which you obviously haven't taken part in yet.
So you are okay, for sure, and that means that all your "guy" parts are in good working order 8)
But in the event that you and gf do decide to take your relationship to the next level, please check into some protection. She can and should look into birth control and you should always have a condom handy, as you really never know when the urge will strike to go a bit further.
Heavy necking and touching can be a hugh turn on and you just may find it hard one day to resist the urge to have actual intercourse. It may just happen out of the blue, then you may be in trouble.
So please take my advice and look into it. Have yourself and your gf ready and prepared, just in case. So carry on, live and laugh but be careful when you love. ;-)
So you are okay, for sure, and that means that all your "guy" parts are in good working order 8)
But in the event that you and gf do decide to take your relationship to the next level, please check into some protection. She can and should look into birth control and you should always have a condom handy, as you really never know when the urge will strike to go a bit further.
Heavy necking and touching can be a hugh turn on and you just may find it hard one day to resist the urge to have actual intercourse. It may just happen out of the blue, then you may be in trouble.
So please take my advice and look into it. Have yourself and your gf ready and prepared, just in case. So carry on, live and laugh but be careful when you love. ;-)
Im very confident with the whole precautions. I wouldn't do anything foolish, trust me. Hopefully we dont get off-topic. You think this is a common among guys entering new relationships? Anyone else experience this? I mean this is kinda embarassing.. Im hoping that eventually it will just pass?
Dude.
You should hope this never passes. Getting an erection when you are in a make out session is normal and ok. There is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. I am serious. Do not be embarrassed. It is a normal body function.
Hopefully you decide to wait until marriage before sex, but either way no woman is going to dislike you being excited by her. A woman wants you to desire her and if you never got excited she could feel like you do not. For most woman the sight of you being excited (assuming you are excited because you are with her) will be a turn on for them.
I cannot make out with my wife without getting an erection. Nor would she or I want me too.
You should hope this never passes. Getting an erection when you are in a make out session is normal and ok. There is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. I am serious. Do not be embarrassed. It is a normal body function.
Hopefully you decide to wait until marriage before sex, but either way no woman is going to dislike you being excited by her. A woman wants you to desire her and if you never got excited she could feel like you do not. For most woman the sight of you being excited (assuming you are excited because you are with her) will be a turn on for them.
I cannot make out with my wife without getting an erection. Nor would she or I want me too.
Hey Ecodun,
Hey man here is the main thing, getting aroused when your making out with a girl is perfectly normal, I mean... if you don't you might some kind of problem or something and pre-cumming is just fine if it's around a girl or other couple, guy, girl, dog, cat, etc... you get the point (Lol). If your with your Girlfriend and your hanging out your brain will remember that you two where making out and it will do it weird magic that we all love and wonder about. Dude... keep on making out and that you really liked the moment and pre-cumming just make sure to always use protection if you get into something serious. Your brain will just keep on saying "Hell... I like this stuff, lets keep the party going"
Hey man here is the main thing, getting aroused when your making out with a girl is perfectly normal, I mean... if you don't you might some kind of problem or something and pre-cumming is just fine if it's around a girl or other couple, guy, girl, dog, cat, etc... you get the point (Lol). If your with your Girlfriend and your hanging out your brain will remember that you two where making out and it will do it weird magic that we all love and wonder about. Dude... keep on making out and that you really liked the moment and pre-cumming just make sure to always use protection if you get into something serious. Your brain will just keep on saying "Hell... I like this stuff, lets keep the party going"
Thanks for the quick replies guyss. I did a lot more reading into this since I posted last. All that I read iss exactly what you said. I think its because its new and I've never experienced this before that at first I got a bit scared because i have this perception that one should be able to hold it and control it. But guess not.
Thanks again
Thanks again
I encountered always the same with your experiences, however I am at 40s. My question how can I control not to cum right away so that my wife will enjoy at the same time?