I have read and reread all of these posts again and again. My husband had a cortisone shot on Friday. Saturday his blood sugar was elevated tremendously. That was controlled by his diabetic medicine and flushing his system with water. It remained high for quite a while. What I wasn't ready for was Sunday. I am a minister so I work through the morning hours. I saw my husband in the morning before I left for work. He was fine. Blood sugar had stablized. When I got home from work he was in a rage. The cat was noisy while he tried to sleep. My daughter took a package of batteries and didn't put them back. Our beloved aged Bull Mastiff (who is sick) should just be put down. Our cats and other dogs... gotta go. He attacked my son verbally .... you aren't going to amount to anything. You are a mediocre human being at best... I had to engage the anger at that point because it was so abusive to our 14 year old son, and that escalated his rage. I kept saying that I loved him and that I was sure this was a reaction to the cortisone... but he wouldn't have anything to do with the thought. When my daughter came home from a dance competition he called her a w**** and told her she couldn't go to dance any more. There was more but you get the drift. Again I couldn't help but engaging again because it was my daughter who is about as perfect as any daughter could be. That escalated his rage. Then he started on me ... brought up old issues from our marriage that we worked hard on to heal. His hatred was so venemous you could almost touch it. My heart is broken into a million pieces. He may come out of this but what if he doesn't? This morning he was still in a rage... blaming me for not helping him with some reports for work. (Currently I am not well and have issues to contend with... I fell asleep waiting for him to be ready for work). And how do we, unhear the horrible things he said to us? Broken and thinking the marriage is at its end.
Please get him to supplement himself with Vitamin D, Magnesium and Vitamin B12 if possible. Understand that steroids are a hormone, and if anything interfers with our own body´s hormonal system it´s bound to mess up one´s mind.
All the best! My best wishes are with you.
Warm regards,
Rawal Afzal.
I´d just say, that being well yourself, calm and composed will allow you best to think and decide. If you still feel aggressive, irritated, angered etc., then the bigger question right now is not he, but your own well-being.
Warm regards,
Rawal Afzal.
I started dating this man about 10 weeks ago. He totally swept me off my feet. It has been a whirlwind romance. We fell in love fast and hard and were spending a lot of time together. He was very attentive with texts, phone calls, wining, dining, thoughtful gifts etc. It was on a very positive trajectory. There were a couple times he showed a bit of a temper but it was mostly directed other places until last Saturday. I saw a complete Jekyll and Hyde. He was extremely cruel to me and told me all kinds of things he did not like about me. It was shocking. Our interactions have been almost nil since. Well guess what? He got a cortisone injection the Wednesday before. I did some investigating and figured that over time whenever he had a "bad" Saturday, he had received a cortisone shot the Wednesday before. I am just beside myself. I think we're done. As hind site is 20/20, I remembered that he had had a horrible rage towards his son a while back, so bad the neighbor almost called social services. This stuff is evil, yuck.
Wishing you all the best!
Warm regards,
Rawal Afzal.
I got rage so bad 3 days after the shot I wanted to either kill myself or run down the nearest person to my car!