I am 17 and lost my virginity 4 days ago. I don’t know why it was that bad. I wanted to do that with my boyfriend that is sweet and careful. But I had very bad stomach pain, had bleeding that couldn’t know if was normal or heavier than normal and scared terribly. I ended up in hospital after that. I probably overreacted and I shouldn’t have done it if was not emotionally ready. Really bad experience of losing virginity, isn’t it?
Well actually nothing bad happened to you. You reacted badly on your first sexual experience and you’re not the only one. It is something totally different and not always very comfortable and special like in our dreams. But do not regret it and try to explain it to your boyfriend. That should make you two closer. I’m sure next time it’ll be better.