dont be shy to say btw if u think it cant be fixed, i kindof accepted it already a bit and this little hope that i have is destroying me tbh
Hey there so obviously it’s hard for me to say anything since I can’t see you however you might have a little hematoma. The good news about that is they usually do resolve it just takes your body a while to break down the clotted blood.... Soaking your penis in really warm water or wrapping a warm washcloth around it a couple times a day which might help soft in the hematoma if that’s what it is. Obviously you don’t want the water so hot that it hurts it should not be painful but it should be fairly warm. Like I said I don’t know exactly what’s going on because I can’t see you but based on your description this would make sense. There’s obviously soaking your penis in really warm water or wrapping a warm washcloth around it a couple times a day which might help soft in the hematoma that’s what it is. Obviously you don’t want the water so hot that it hurts that should not be painful but it should be fairly warm. Like I said I don’t know exactly what’s going on because I can’t see you but based on your description this would make sense. I would still try and not masturbate for at least a week. Out of curiosity what country are you from? And is madturbation taboo for religious reasons or cultural reasons in your country?
hello, thx for the quick reply u help me so much while i dont even pay u or something, im very very grateful for that, alright i wll wait and do the warm water thing, im from europe but i got middle eastern background, it is taboo both cultural and religious as it is a sin in my faith(islam),
i have already as of now not masturbated for 5 days and it is less difficult to get an erection than first, so i think thats improving which is awesome
You’re. Very welcome man I’m just glad I can help some.... and I understand where you’re coming from it is considered a sin for my religion too (catholic). ... please keep me posted and if you have any other questions or concerns feel free to ask alright ?
alright thx very much for helping me out, imma keep u posted and ill ask if i got questions thx man
No problem man I know how much anxiety issues with our junk can cause ..... also how difficult it can be to talk or to someone about it
hey man, as of now it is going very well, i did what u told and the swelling declined very much, the glans feels now softer again, i see the color returning in some places too, the erectile dysfunction is gone mostly, i can get good erections now, i read online that the grooves are damages(probably that thats why i got low sensitivity in glans) and that it is not permanent but it heals if u let it rest, i noticed that when i got an erection the glans has some white stuff(its hard to explain) but i figured that thats a sign that the grooves are healing but became broken because of the erection, nonetheless thx very much its helping me very much, imma keep u further posted if u are interested
That’s awesome Jan!!! I would still refrain from masturbating a little longer if you can and also when you do go back don’t squeeze so hard and not be as rough. You also may want to try using some lube too. Also know many have groves and it can be normal and sometimes results as a penis grows during puberty.... I suspect the low sensitivity is caused more from the possible hematoma you had in your glans especially since it’s improving ... the wrinkles may or may not resolve but it’s on and nothing to worry about. Do the groves flatten out during an erection.? Again I’m happy to hear things are improving man!!! Please keep me posted
yeah, the grooves flatten out mostly, i plan on not masturbating alltogether for a year or something, because not masturbating made me feel way better in my life overall, and id not like such an accident again :), aye ill keep u posted
That’s great no one needs to masturbate and it can make you feel better as far as self esteems and overall to not do it...: or to only do it once in a while .... so good for you... and I forgot did you say you were sexually active at all or have you ever been in the past ...?
no tbh i have barely ever spoken to a girl let alone touch a girl lol,
Ok there’s totally nothing wrong with that I was just curious... now have you ever heard of a nocturnal emission or “wet dream”? If you do not masturbate or are with a girl or have some other way of ejaculaing you may get one of these ... but no worries they are completely normal
yeah i know, got them before. aye thx for helpin me out so much gonna keep u posted
Ok great!! Just wanted to let you know. Because some people have never heard of them and when they get one it kind of freaks them out.