Hi, I am 43 years old male and I have pretty big problem. I am divorced for almost two years from my wife and in the last several weeks she is calling me asking to come back. We were married for 7 years and differences between us became so big that we couldn't live together any more. Also I have found that she had affair with her friend while we were married. She is telling me now that she made mistake and she wants to come back. I am not sure what to do.
Hi, this is always very difficult question and it is not easy to give good advice. You have to be honest to your self and see if you really want her back. If you don't think that you may overcome all problems which stayed behind your divorce it is better not to start it again. On the other side if you feel that you may give one more chance to you, than why not.