I also get severe abdominal pain after sex sometimes. I have found that it happens most often when my pelvis is shifted/tilted up. (ie legs stretched towards your own head while your legs are on your partners shoulders.) It's rarely after anything crazy or non-crazy but mainly due to the angle of my body. When it occurs myself or my boyfriend will run a hot bath and I have to sit in it for about 40min. That always helps and I never deal with pain the next day. What I dislike is the extreme pain (usually doubled over while walking to the tub and then curled up while in the tub for about 5min), heavy breathing, crying (it's been that bad) and the worst part is that it happens after something that's incredible and you almost start to relate the bad pain that happens after with having sex. (Like a poorly timed Pavlovian response) I've been to Planned Parenthood to ask questions and the response I received was that it may be due to me not being as aroused during those times and the angle of the positions. That was just me - they had no concerns regarding anything else. So a hot bath or heating pad will help, but I definitely feel your pain. (no pun intended) :)
Recently my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. It was extremely quick and we decided that we shouldn't do it right at that moment. This happened on two consecutive nights. The morning after these two instances, she started to feel pain on her right side of her abdomen, sort of where the appendix is located. We are really scared that it may be pregnancy, but would symptoms really develop that quickly? Also, it never seems to be on the left side of her body. She's going to see a doctor soon, but I am still quite scared.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
I keep reading these posts. Many different forums. I almost cried hearing that so many other women are in pain too. Today was the first real time I have had this insane pain after sex and all the other symptoms. The other day I did have discomfort and vomiting. Its nice to know that Im not the only one. Thanks you all for your posts. Also, my boyfriend is having a hard time with this too bcuz he doesnt know what to do. This sucks, and I thought I would never get a cyst, but just goes to show that no one is superhuman
Did you find out any answers for this question? I am on here looking because I have exactly the same symptoms as you and trying to find a few answers. Please post if you have found out anything helpful. Thanks
I have been going through the same issues since 2002 and have never been given an straight answer from a doctor and was wondering if anyone goping through the dame issues has. I have been told since I was 16 (1997) ansand a virgin that I have ovarian cyst and was put on birth control to control them and they went away. But come back in 2002 I was in a simi-commeted relationship. But have been in two monogamist realtionships ever since. I still suffer from these issues. PLEASE HELP ME IF YOU CAN! We are trying to have kids and I need to know if this lead to infertility.
i've had a similar experience to this and it might be that the penis is banging you in that region. next time you have sex hold your lower abdomen and see if you can feel the penis penetrating that area. i felt it and think that it might be the culprit.
welll idk whats going on with my stomach but after i had sex last night, i woke up this morning and my stomach was killing me like hell
Hey, My girlfriend is in the same boat as you guys, she is feeling intense stomach pains and is throwing up abit...
We used protection and the condom didnt break and i pulled out before i cummed, so everything was clean, althought we are both just abit worried she is pregnant, we are only 16 but have been together 2 years and only did it 2 nights ago, any thoughts?
We used protection and the condom didnt break and i pulled out before i cummed, so everything was clean, althought we are both just abit worried she is pregnant, we are only 16 but have been together 2 years and only did it 2 nights ago, any thoughts?
I have had this happen before a few times with my current boyfriend. ive only had sex with three guys. once for the first two guys and multiple times with my current boyfriend. we have been active for over a year. and most of the time, this is not a problem, but there are times when this pops up. the first time it happened, we had to stop in the middle of sex because it hurt so bad for me. i started crying and i couldnt move at all. he got really worried and almost instantly started looking up what it could be on his smartphone. he found a couple reasons why it couldve been happening. 1 was that he hit one of my ovaries (keep in mind that it wasnt rough sex, just normal) because his penis had entered a strange or different way like too far to one side or too deep. 2 reason was that i was pregnant and he hit one of my ovaries and it was causing me to have a miscarriage, which was possible but not likely for me cause im pretty sure i wasnt pregnant. but there is always a chance that i wasnt aware that i was. and the last reason is simply that the sex was getting a little too rough and there was more friction. either way, the pain sucks and it happens everyonce in a while and ill hurt for up to a week, each day the pain gets a little less intense. my parents arent aware that im sexually active even though my mom got me on birth control. so i havent gone to the doctor to find out what it actually was but as soon as i can, and when it happens again, ill go and find out what is going on.
yes you can
i was the same way. but i had irregular periods. So i told my parents i wanted to be on birth control to regulate them. Before you can get birth control you have to be tested. 9 years later they have found that i have PCOS.. (Poly cystic ovarian syndrome)
So I know this has been replied to but let me share my story. My boyfriend of two years and I were having sex and all of the sudden I had a sharp unbearable pain. We stopped and it went down a bit but then intensified. The next day it was still there and it even hurt my butt area (no anal) and was spreading to my shoulders. It was unbearable. I went to a doctor who sent me to St. Luke's er.
After a lot of tests and ultrasounds they found that my right ovary was twice the normal size and inflamed. They suspected it was twisted but there was still some blood flow so there had to be something else. They found fluid in my chest and belly and did an emergency surgery. Turns out I had an ovarian cyst that had ruptured. Sex helped it rupture that day but it would have ruptured with physical activity regardless and I'm glad it did when it did. It was the same pain you guys are describing, it was incredibly unbearable, so look at that as a reason. I've never had an issue with cysts and otherwise am extremely healthy.
I've recently started sleeping with a man who is very and I mean very well endowed. I find the only time I get the uncomfortable pain during and after sex is when he goes in too deep or I am on top and he is completely inside me. It's mostly because hes hitting regions with his penis head thrusts on my ovaries. You know how the first time having sex right after our periods gets done and we get that uncomfortable pain? It's pretty much the same thing. Nothing to worry. If there's a change in man and therefore change in size but the problem still seems to persist then I would suggest seeing a doctor. My friend had a bleeding problem due to the guy being too big but no cyst or anything. This discomfort will go away :).
I've also been having similar pains. However it not only hurts in my lower abdominal region, but my lower back is what hurts the most. It lasts about 10 minutes after sex and is excruciating and I often puke because of the pain. It happened before when my boyfriend and I had sex it happened a few times and I went to get checked for STDs, and also had an ultrasound done and everything to see if their were any cysts on my ovaries or anything but nothing turned up-I'm seemingly healthy down there so I dont understand whats going on and why it happens. Then it hadnt happened for a long time, like 3 months and my boyfriend and I were doing anything differently and then it happened again last night. Someone help lol
if u have sex a gain put ur legs over his shoulder ,let him put in slowly u relax .it will all go away