Hi, I'm 16 and I had a terribly embarrassing experience with my girlfriend yesterday. She gave me a ha****b for the first time and accidently kept touching my penis head which caused me a lot of pain and I kept losing my erection and was unable to ejaculate.
Till a few weeks back, I did not really know that I had this big a problem because I always thought that it would eventually become all right. But after some research I realized this was actually quite an issue and decided to work on it. I had never pulled back my foreskin and it took me a few days to be able to do it and cleaned up all the smegma build up after enduring a lot of pain. It's been 3 weeks since I started pulling back, and it's getting slightly better but it still hurts a lot. My foreskin slides back slightly easily now, and automatically slides back a bit when I get an erection. But the sensitivity remains and I've tried touching the head a few times everyday to make it less sensitive but there hasn't been too much progress.
How much time do you think it will take before touching my head will no longer be a problem? How do I make the progress faster? Also, once it becomes less sensitive, am I supposed to leave the foreskin pulled back all the time? I would be grateful for your help.
Hi, I too have an oversensitive gland that has always caused discomfort when over rubbed. In addition the tight foreskin used to hurt too.
I use a condom and it now has helped me. I now apply a cream to numb the gland which has virtually eliminated the issues.
Hope you find ways around your issues and enjoy your time with your girlfriend.