Please advice:
I am 22 and I feel like unhappy with my 4th yr marriage due to a lot of mis understandings and I have tried all things that could fix our relationship. I have sacrificed so much things in my life because of him but still I am not seeing any changes he always gets mad he hits me sometime he is abusing me verbally but i don't know what to do cuz we have a daughter and she is turning 4...being a parent of course i can sacrifice as much things as i can just for my daughter you know what i mean like try everything that could fix our marriage but right now i'm already at the point where my feelings is not wholesome anymore it's like i am getting cold and i am not liking it.
Then one day i saw this other guy he is nice and i feel like i'm falling but you know maybe im just having low self esteem that's why i am easily attracted to some guys that are very nice to me? but this guy that i am talkin about, my feeling for him is not the same as when i first saw my hubby. :'( it's like i feel more excited with this guy not like with my hubby when i first saw him i never get excited, my feelings with him just got developed cuz he is very nice to me back then. what should i do? please help me.
Kraine
I am 22 and I feel like unhappy with my 4th yr marriage due to a lot of mis understandings and I have tried all things that could fix our relationship. I have sacrificed so much things in my life because of him but still I am not seeing any changes he always gets mad he hits me sometime he is abusing me verbally but i don't know what to do cuz we have a daughter and she is turning 4...being a parent of course i can sacrifice as much things as i can just for my daughter you know what i mean like try everything that could fix our marriage but right now i'm already at the point where my feelings is not wholesome anymore it's like i am getting cold and i am not liking it.
Then one day i saw this other guy he is nice and i feel like i'm falling but you know maybe im just having low self esteem that's why i am easily attracted to some guys that are very nice to me? but this guy that i am talkin about, my feeling for him is not the same as when i first saw my hubby. :'( it's like i feel more excited with this guy not like with my hubby when i first saw him i never get excited, my feelings with him just got developed cuz he is very nice to me back then. what should i do? please help me.
Kraine
Well it is obvious that the marriage should be ended. I completly understand trying to make it wrk for yalls daughters sake but thats that. You tried and the way it is going it is not a healthy situation for you and your baby. So the best and smartest thing you can do is leave. Dont leave for another man because that just creates other problems but leave for you and your daughter. Good luck