Finding my G-spot

I have the same questin

It seems that a lot of girls are having issues finding their g-spot. Try it with the simplest way - with your fingers. Your fingers are a great way to first identify where your g-spot is and for g-spot stimulation because you are controlling them.  Fingers are good if you do know the location of the g-spot, but they are also OK when you are trying to find it.

Here is what you should do - insert two fingers into your vagina with your palm facing up, pointed toward your belly button. After that, try to curl your fingers up and gently stroke the top of the vaginal wall. When you feel some different things than before, that means that you have found your g - spot. Maybe that is the way to squirt as well. 

I'm sure that's been mentioned here many times but it's about an inch or two inside your vagina at the front. If you lay your hand flat against your vulva with your middle finger inside your vagina, curl it back toward your palm and you should be able to find a soft spot. That's it!

I think it takes a lot of stimulation to make you squirt and not necessarily on your G spot. I suppose everyone is different though. In some porn vids it is done with a lot of hand motion inside and in others the girl does it herself by some major vulva/clit rubbing but in all of them she is seriously into what's being done.

Babyshine and Bella_love

How are you doing with this?

You should not really want to squirt for your boyfriend, but for yourself Babyshine. It sounds as though he is being rather selfish.

If you really want step by step instructions, PM me (several steps). Either (or both) of you.

It would help to know something about you - like your age, and what you do at the moment. Hope I can help.

 You might consider shifting your focus away from your clitoris for a bit, and onto somewhere else beyond the obvious -- nipples, belly, inner thighs. Slip a finger or two inside yourself to massage your G-Spot. It is the rough-feeling place just at the upper inside of the front end of your vagina, kind of  "behind" your clitoris. It sort of feels like the roof of your mouth. This rough spot is meant to excite both you and your lover (Nature is assuming it's a male here) by stimulating the coronal ridge of his penis to bring him to orgasm so he will ejaculate his sperm inside you. But you can massage it yourself to lovely, intense effect, and bring yourself to orgasm from this alone. In concert with your clit and nipples etc., you should be able to get there on a regular basis.

By the way -- a note about squirting.  Not all females ejaculate to that degree or in that way. If your body IS capable of that, it will likely happen as you achieve your orgasm. As you reach your orgasm, push "out" and "down" as if you were trying to pee. (It helps to sit with a towel under your buttocks.) When you orgasm, you might just squirt! That fluid serves to lubricate the area (and the penis that might be entering you) to make things go a little smoother. But it is not absolutely necessary, as the vagina manages to lubricate itself without that, and not doing so is not a failing or a shortcoming in any way.

But remember, your orgasm is not just driven by your clit (or your nipples, your belly button, your anus, your mouth) or even your G-Spot. In short, the physical sensations you create with your fingers are only a PART of what goes into your orgasm. Most of it is actually in your head. Your BRAIN, your MIND really drives your body when it comes to orgasms. The brain takes the sensations you create and mixes them with memories, fantasies, images and other stuff in your mind to begin the process that culminates in orgasm. A lot has been written about that, here and elsewhere, but it bears repeating. Orgasm is a delicate dance you do with yourself. Lots of things go into making it happen, including strong feelings of love for a partner. Lots of things can also get in the way -- subconscious fear of punishment, thoughts of being "bad", etc., even desires for a particular, absent partner can distract you or detract from the pleasure you want and deserve. You may need to give yourself  PERMISSION -- the freedom -- to have and enjoy the screaming orgasm(s) you deserve.

So, keep exploring the sensations your body can create, and Good Luck!