How to have sex with pleasure for the first time as these discussions tell that there will be pain if penis inserted into vagina...how?
Hi Conky,
Sex, the first few times, is often very clumsy and yes, it can hurt the woman.
The tissues in the vagina are not used to being stretched. Her hymen may also tear. The trauma to the tissues can cause pain and discomfort, sometimes for several days.
Foreplay and lube are your friend. Make sure she is very wet and use additional lube if available, KY Jelly for example. It can help. Take your time penetrating and don't try to go very deep at first. Go slow.
Finally, talk to each other. Tell each other what feels good and what hurts. Nobody can read minds. Remember too, what you see in porn isn't real.
Good luck.
Thanks for the info.let me clarify how to penetrate conchy penis into vagina of woman as it may be the first time for me to find the spot to penetrate penis without causing her much pain as you have informed.
Go hard and fast matey, that's what I always do with virgins the love it dood it's there god givin right to f**k and be screwed and suck the man and daddy, good luck with the be gentle approach and make sure she's wet enough.... Man she all fired up if your in this position so charge brother charge the little tight hole!!! Yeeooowww luv the virginator
That's a pretty selfish attitude guest. You'll have her screaming alright and she'll be in pain.
You should deffinetly take it very slow and be patient.
Once yous have had sex numerous times you can speed up.
You dont always bleed or have pain during the first time though.