hello,
today, i had sex for the first time... i have had make out many times earlier, and that is why i get a doubt...
i did not cum during my first sex, i thought men cum when they have sex... i had intercourse starting from around 7pm, till it was 8:50pm i dint cum,.. my friend asked me how much time do i take to cum,.. i thought i had to come, yet i dint... i was very hard for more than 30 mins overall, and remaining time it was not perfectly hard,.. at last, she asked to stop it that she could not hold for more and so did i and she told i had great stamina, though i was lil proud, i still got a doubt...
but, after the intercourse, i had this doubt so i shagged and i did cum... and 2hrs earlier to the intercorse, i have shagged, could that be a reason for me not cumming???
i am a dancer, i am 5'8" and 65kg, 21 year old and my bmi 24... i am skinny, healthy, strong enough that i perform lot of stunts... is this normal behaviour to not cum though i have had intercourse for more than 1 hr??? and i read few things that average hard on time ranges from 4 min to 12 min... and i am pretty sure that i was hard on for more than 30min, i am not sure about the other time...
i shag almost everyday, and everytime i do cum, but not during my first experience...
and can this situation explain my capacity or whatever ???
It doesn't reflect on your capacity. Some guys have an issue where they, for lack of better word, orgasm..but do not ejaculate. Yes, the "shagging" as you call it, can affect whether or not you would be able to come 2 hours later. Try not doing that daily, and especially not before sexual intercourse. If the problem persists, and you can't cum from sexual intercourse, but you can from "shagging" try going 1-3 days without doing so and see if that helps your situation.