Hey guys, I'd like to offer some strategies to help with the anxiety. These are coming from someone who is massively attracted to guys (me). Next time you feel an attack coming on, ask yourself "What is the worst that can happen?" You might find yourself stifling a laugh, because here it is: You decide you're gay and move in with a nice gay guy. You're not at all attracted to him or any guy - even though you're gay - so you arrange an open marriage and sleep in separate bedrooms. He does his boyfriend in his room while you do your girlfriend in yours. GASP!!!! WHAT A HORRIFIC OUTCOME!!!! NOOOOOOO! But wait, there's more. Your girlfriend accidentally gets pregnant, so she moves in. You ask your gay husband that you don't sleep with if he wants to co-parent and he says "Naw, I'm good. Is it okay if my boyfriend Chad moves in?" You say "sure - not a problem." Now can you please tell me what's so terrible about that gay version of yourself? You've got a hot girlfriend, a baby and a guy in the next room willing to do you at a moment's notice. Some would call that paradise. When you find yourself aroused by a guy - or simply worrying about being aroused - tell yourself "All my sexual feelings are okay. It's not either-or. I'm into women and that's not going to change just because this guy makes me hard. No one is all gay or all straight. Wherever I land on the gay/straight spectrum, I'm gonna be okay." If you're getting professional help, make sure it's with someone who is not homophobic. You can screen for this by asking them if they believe that homosexuality is a normal part of the sexual spectrum. If they don't, dump 'em.
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