Your curiosity is perfectly normal! We are a "visual" species, and the sight of others (of either gender) naked is often arousing. Going home and masturbating while remembering what you saw is helping you "burn in" the circuits for arousal, orgasm and sexual satisfaction that ensure the survival of the species. In other words, we are wired to do just what you've been doing, so enjoy it! Eventually you will have other experiences that will replace the ones you've been using up to now.
Your body and mind are doing just what you should be to "stay in shape", sexually. Enjoy it, and don't worry about it.
Your body and mind are doing just what you should be to "stay in shape", sexually. Enjoy it, and don't worry about it.
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I AM 13 AND SOME OF THE YOUNGER BOYS ABOUT 10-12 ARE MUCH BIGGER THEN ME WHEN I AM ERECT AND THEY ARE SOFT SO I DON'T WORRY THEY SEE ME HARD
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That was then, but what about now? Some guys are "late bloomers". Any improvement since those school days? And did it do the job (baby making) you had it for? A lot of middle and high school guys in small category would like to know a happy ending is still possible.
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HI. I USED TO GET ERECTIONS IN THE SHOWER.
ME AND MY FRIEND USED TO HAVE MASTERBATION RACES.IDE SAY YOUR NORMAL .
ME AND MY FRIEND USED TO HAVE MASTERBATION RACES.IDE SAY YOUR NORMAL .
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When I was at the swimming pool I was getting dry and a lad went into showers with his back to me. He turned and saw me looking and he started wanking off .I watched till he spunked up.
I of course had to do myself when I got home.SOUND
I of course had to do myself when I got home.SOUND
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I once got an hard on watching tv when I was about 13. I was in foster care at the time and I had come home from school and got a hard on in the tv room .
I was the eldest boy. They had two daughters about 19yrs and 21yrs. The parents were still working a land the 19yr old but the eldest daughter was sitting me as she was not working, she was watching tv too. At 13 I was already wanting so made a swift exit to the bathroom to relieve myself.
AS I got up it was very visible and i'm sure she saw and took a lingering second look.
The thought helped speed up my relieving session. A few times actually.
I was the eldest boy. They had two daughters about 19yrs and 21yrs. The parents were still working a land the 19yr old but the eldest daughter was sitting me as she was not working, she was watching tv too. At 13 I was already wanting so made a swift exit to the bathroom to relieve myself.
AS I got up it was very visible and i'm sure she saw and took a lingering second look.
The thought helped speed up my relieving session. A few times actually.
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I done the same in school and in care. I was in an all boys home sam345 and unused to look at the other lads in the shower. Specially the older lads.
I got to know some lads who often wanked in there room or in shower and I used to hide and watch them want off.
I would want and watch them.
I got to know some lads who often wanked in there room or in shower and I used to hide and watch them want off.
I would want and watch them.
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It usually has nothing to do with "some nice body". Worrying or thinking about it happening is enough to make it happen. It can happen with ugly bodies or nobodies!
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I'm gay, or at least I enjoy sucking penises- so it was very difficult for me.
I refused to wrestle boys in High School. I wanted to get pinned down and have their crotch in my face.
I just knew I'd get a hard on with a boy on top of me- I'd lose the "fight" to get that position,,,
I used to get boners in the locker room and I got called out a few times. That was really no big deal. I was able to divert the conversation as- How did you know if you weren't checking me out? There was another borderline openly gay boy in PE, he used to lay out on the bench naked. I was too shy back then, I had 2 secret boyfriends through High School- (graduated 1982). morality was more strict back then. It was difficult to have penises 2 inches from my face and not be able to act on it. I still remember & reminisce over those times..
I went skinny dipping with my best friend in Junior High, I thought he was gay but we never did anything.
He laid out naked on the bed, & I took the towel from him- inches from his face- but we seemed to be unsure of the situation so nothing happened.
Sometimes he'd bring over a buddy who lived up the street, & we'd all swim together. He had a big penis. I still think about those boys to this day- 40 + years later,
I think I should have gone for it when they were naked.
Times were different & I was too shy back then...
I refused to wrestle boys in High School. I wanted to get pinned down and have their crotch in my face.
I just knew I'd get a hard on with a boy on top of me- I'd lose the "fight" to get that position,,,
I used to get boners in the locker room and I got called out a few times. That was really no big deal. I was able to divert the conversation as- How did you know if you weren't checking me out? There was another borderline openly gay boy in PE, he used to lay out on the bench naked. I was too shy back then, I had 2 secret boyfriends through High School- (graduated 1982). morality was more strict back then. It was difficult to have penises 2 inches from my face and not be able to act on it. I still remember & reminisce over those times..
I went skinny dipping with my best friend in Junior High, I thought he was gay but we never did anything.
He laid out naked on the bed, & I took the towel from him- inches from his face- but we seemed to be unsure of the situation so nothing happened.
Sometimes he'd bring over a buddy who lived up the street, & we'd all swim together. He had a big penis. I still think about those boys to this day- 40 + years later,
I think I should have gone for it when they were naked.
Times were different & I was too shy back then...
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The reputations of my "secret" High School boyfriends, kind of betrayed me. They were rather loose, cute, and muscular...I guess you'd say they were "easy" because they were always turned on.
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One issue that neither writer addressed could be covered quickly with the question, "Could you be a 'late bloomer'?"
Longer version; I've said before that for the overwhelming majority of boys, the overwhelming majority of changes they will see during puberty will show up between their 12th and 14th birthdays. At 13, it could be that his penis is still in the "dormant" growth stage between birth and puberty. If so, this will probably start to change real soon, so he shouldn't resign himself to thinking that he'll just have to have a more positive attitude about his "baby penis". It could be that the changes are already in progress, but it doesn't happen quickly. I don't know what the rate of growth is for "full speed ahead" puberty, but I say, "What if it was 1/100th of an inch a day?" If your penis is 1/100th of an inch longer today than it was yesterday, you would be able to tell the difference. But if your penis was one and a half inch long when it started puberty ("baby sized"), it would be 5" long a year later. That's better than most men who are honest about their size. If it kept up for a second year, your penis would be over eight and a half inches long and it would be in the biggest 1% and have more size than you would have any real world use for, something "maleanimal" mentioned when saying, "Hey, don't worry about thinking it is too small. It isn't."
Longer version; I've said before that for the overwhelming majority of boys, the overwhelming majority of changes they will see during puberty will show up between their 12th and 14th birthdays. At 13, it could be that his penis is still in the "dormant" growth stage between birth and puberty. If so, this will probably start to change real soon, so he shouldn't resign himself to thinking that he'll just have to have a more positive attitude about his "baby penis". It could be that the changes are already in progress, but it doesn't happen quickly. I don't know what the rate of growth is for "full speed ahead" puberty, but I say, "What if it was 1/100th of an inch a day?" If your penis is 1/100th of an inch longer today than it was yesterday, you would be able to tell the difference. But if your penis was one and a half inch long when it started puberty ("baby sized"), it would be 5" long a year later. That's better than most men who are honest about their size. If it kept up for a second year, your penis would be over eight and a half inches long and it would be in the biggest 1% and have more size than you would have any real world use for, something "maleanimal" mentioned when saying, "Hey, don't worry about thinking it is too small. It isn't."
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I very much sympathize with your struggle to come to terms with your desires in a way that would be "socially", if not sexually acceptable. As we grow into our developing bodies (and our strengthening, ever more active libidos) I think most of us end up with more regrets about the things we DIDN'T do than the things we DID.
Of course, you can't go back and pluck up more courage, take more risk, or grab a missed opportunity denied out of very reasonable fear of repercussions at that young age, in that situation. So, the best course would seem to be to learn from those apprehensions that held you back, and try to live out your desires from here on, the best you can, and happily experience the things that intrigue you -- sexually and otherwise.
Of course, you can't go back and pluck up more courage, take more risk, or grab a missed opportunity denied out of very reasonable fear of repercussions at that young age, in that situation. So, the best course would seem to be to learn from those apprehensions that held you back, and try to live out your desires from here on, the best you can, and happily experience the things that intrigue you -- sexually and otherwise.
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I appreciate your bringing up the idea of the differing speed of physical development and the onset of puberty accounting for the size of one's genitals at a given age. Since we humans don't come with a pre-programmed instruction manual beyond what we need to simply survive through infancy, we often fall prey to the idea that we MUST all develop and mature similarly. As adults we generally come to know this is not true. One need only look around to see the endless variety of human beings walking around. This variety includes their particular genetic codes that determine their own particular schedule of growth and development (including penile size).
How do we tell our young humans that "patience" is the watchword for when your testicles, your penis -- or your clitoris and breasts for that matter -- will "match up" to your classmates? That they must not fear that they are somehow "less" because they may not "measure up" just then? We suffer so much trauma over nothing, if we only knew.
Of course, as others have mentioned here, the ritual "comparing" with others, the "exploratory exhibition" of ours and others' genitals and body parts so often remains with us as a pleasant and penchant part of much of our sexual psyches long after the disappointment, the shock -- or the pride! -- of the moment is no longer so important. Often, it can lead us to explore more eagerly, as we mature into our fully sexual selves.
One final thought regarding size: There will ALWAYS be those who will desire whatever you have, whenever you have it, at whatever size you are. The trick is only to find them.
How do we tell our young humans that "patience" is the watchword for when your testicles, your penis -- or your clitoris and breasts for that matter -- will "match up" to your classmates? That they must not fear that they are somehow "less" because they may not "measure up" just then? We suffer so much trauma over nothing, if we only knew.
Of course, as others have mentioned here, the ritual "comparing" with others, the "exploratory exhibition" of ours and others' genitals and body parts so often remains with us as a pleasant and penchant part of much of our sexual psyches long after the disappointment, the shock -- or the pride! -- of the moment is no longer so important. Often, it can lead us to explore more eagerly, as we mature into our fully sexual selves.
One final thought regarding size: There will ALWAYS be those who will desire whatever you have, whenever you have it, at whatever size you are. The trick is only to find them.
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