GET ERECTIONS IN THE SCHOOL SHOWER

I am 14 and i get an erections in the school shower, i guess just because other boys are looking at my penis!

I do the small thing, thinking about all the different size penises i seen in the shower room! Its too bad i am one of the smaller ones!

You have big penis on hard?

First ... The length and girth (thickness) of your penis is not an issue unless you believe it is. At your age, it is possible that your penis will continue to grow, especially as you begin to use it for sexual activity. ALSO, penises, just like other parts of you, come in as many styles, shapes and sizes as people themselves! You'll see smaller than yours and bigger. You may see other boys who seem to be larger, but everyone is somewhere along the "size" spectrum, and just about all of them function just fine.
So, size is not the point, necessarily, unless you are trying to have intercourse with someone who is very heavy.; in other words, they have a lot to get past in order to push your penis inside. That situation is not very likely, so let's deal with more "routine" sexual matters here. First of all, is it FUNCTIONAL, right? If you can pee through it, if you can masturbate to orgasm and ejaculate (if your body has begun doing that) , if it feels good when you play with it, if it provides you with wonderful sensations, then no worries, you -- and it -- are doing just fine.
THE ABILITY TO GIVE PLEASURE TO OTHERS -- If you are heterosexual, remember that a girl's primary organ for sexual pleasure, the clitoris (which is located at the top of the vulva, nestled between their vaginal lips) is OUTSIDE her body, meaning that your erect penis is certainly capable of pleasuring that part of her (along with your gentle fingers and your tongue, by the way). Rubbing your erect penis along, around or against her clitoris can bring both of you well along to orgasm. Next, her G-SPOT (another major organ for her orgasm) is located just inside the top front of her vaginal opening, kind of “behind” her clitoris. If you put your finger in there it feels rough, like the roof of your mouth. Your erect penis is certainly capable of reaching it. During intercourse, try thrusting upward rather than inward. This will force the head of your penis against it and should excite her nicely. And you don't need your penis, necessarily, to stimulate her elsewhere on her body: kissing her mouth, her breasts, nipples, belly button, inside her thighs, nuzzling under her arms, licking her ears, her toes, etc etc etc. – pretty much anywhere!
A lot of that also holds if you are homosexual. Male bodies have similar sensual places that you can stimulate. The same no-penile methods of stimulation are crucial to a complete lovemaking / sexual experience, regardless of gender. And of course, much of homosexual sex centers around oral / genital contact, and very few guys will turn down the chance to give oral sex to someone because they are too small. Too large, maybe, but never too small.
So, no worries about your size, my friend. You'll do fine!

Boy-oh-boy! you went farther than anyone on the subject of "how to please a woman". Then you followed it up with "how to please a man". But you missed the safest option, "how to please yourself". I would like to think that would be most appropriate for that 14 year old boy.

First, I am going to write on the assumption that showering with other boys is new to you. Other boys looking at your penis isn't going to give you an erection. Being aroused by the thought that other boys are looking at you ("my penis") in a sexual way will give you an erection. Looking at all these other boy's penises (also known as comparing theirs with yours) can have the same effect. Assuming you are strait, the novelty of having everyone's penis out in the open will wear off soon and your erections will no longer be making a regular appearance. (Now, there are a few strait guys for whom the novelty never wears off, so I'm not making any guarantees here.)

Are we missing a few words here?

I am married and I still get erected when I see a boys penis

I understand your thoughts in that regard, but a 14-yr old is certainly able to be sexually "functional" with a partner, and may choose to begin exploring that option, should it present itself.

However, the thrust of my admittedly long answer was directed at the idea that his penis was "small" or "too small" in relation to those he was seeing on the other boys in the shower. This is a pervasive idea among teens and adults alike, and I was trying to assuage that fear.

I would agree that "flying solo" is the safest sexual conduct for any of us -- at any age -- but may not be the most productive or satisfying emotionally or sexually. I hope you would agree that the advice i was giving should stand him in good stead as he explores, develops and matures into his adult sexual self.

I hope for both of you, that you consistently get an erection when you see your wife naked.
This getting an erection when you see a boy's penis is a personal disaster just waiting to happen. I wonder where you get to see a boy's penis. Changing your son is understandable. I hope you never act beyond getting the erection, and I hope don't share the knowledge of this trait with anyone, other than the readers of your submission, who know you only as "Guest".

Something I thought of after my first reply; The wording is a little funny. It leads me to wonder if the writer speaks some language other than English. If so, the writer may think "erected" means aroused, and the writer is a woman. Not quite as bad as the statement being written by a man. The writer's "boys" is the same thing as we men talking about "hot girls" when we know they are really hot young women. If I thing a woman young enough to be my daughter is sexually arousing naked, it's only fair if a woman finds a man young enough to be her son to be sexually arousing naked. And what I said in the last piece applies here too. You should never go chasing after some 12-14 year old boy just because you think he is the hottest thing you've seen in years.

I'm 15. And wrestle in school. Our JV team wrestles with the Varsity team. And When I get pinned under these big sweaty juniors and seniors I get turned on. They liked to prove their strength. They grab my crotch. And Push their crotch right in my face.

I find myself getting aroused. I don't think I'm gay or bi - I have a gf- but feeling their sweaty bodies and having the flesh on flesh contact. I even find the smell of their balls in my face as something I like.

What should I do??

That's normal
When I was in High School I wrestled and all the guys got boners. Even grabbed each other. We were comfortable with each other's bodies.

We showered in a big communal shower. A couple times we carried the wrestling in there and wrestled naked. Nothing ever happened except a few guys would grab each other's penis while they wrestled. All fun.

Hey. Maybe you can help me. I'm a 15 yo guy. Wrestle at school. I get hard all the time when wrestling especially when my opponent presses his balls in my face. I don't think I'm gay. But every time it happens I get hard. And can't wait to wack off.
But my opponent is hard too. And I know he's not gay. So it it normal.

Yeah do you get turned on?Do you have a big penis on hard?