GET ERECTIONS IN THE SCHOOL SHOWER

Yeah, I did when I was at school as I had the total hots for this boy called Jason. We'd been doing cross country, and were the fastest in class, so got back first to shower. Let's just say, the erection was relieved by Jason. Ended up having full sex in the shower and then returned the "favour" back at his later. Amazing days. Only happened twice, but still amazing.

You are absolutely normal. Our conscious self-labeling of "gay" or "straight" is completely ignored by our subconscious reactions to sexual stimuli -- however and wherever they happen. We are first and foremost sexual animals, and we are programmed by evolution to make sexual connections we may not actually seek out or desire.
However, it is entirely reasonable that you are further along the sexual spectrum than you assumed (or may want). You MAY find great satisfaction in exploring that response to another male in close proximity that you experienced during your wrestling. (Thankfully, by the way, you are not in ancient Greece where wrestling was routinely conducted in the nude!)
If you choose to experiment with allowing yourself to fully respond to another male sexually, this STILL does not mean that you have turned away from sexual involvement with females. It simply means that your own (very particular) sexual responses are more open than you thought. This is perfectly normal and far more common than you may realize.
Regardless, do not judge yourself too harshly for feeling what you feel. As Shakespeare said, "Nothing is GOOD or BAD but thinking makes it so". Your self-appraisal and concern is something you've been TAUGHT by other people, and surely does not truly reflect who you may actually be. No matter what, it is clear that you are -- and mean to be -- a good person. And that is all that truly matters. Who and what turns you on is something for you and you alone to consider. I think you should try to accept the things you may feel as something positive in yourself. You need not ever act on those things, but they do not in and of themselves make you weird, sick or bad. I hope you can be kinder to yourself, and accept the feelings you have as special and something to be respected. Good Luck.

That’s why thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth.

I think mothers who are so "thoughtful" as to do this are few and far between. I think boys who are sufficiently developed for this to work and could be made so passive as for this to work are few and far between. I know we have a guest who has a fantasy about taking control of a trusting young man's body and making it do everything it is sexually capable of doing without a woman's body there to be on the receiving end. Or maybe the writer just wants to see how she or he can do writing porn. One last question; Is the writer a mother, woman, man, boy who'd like to do this, or boy who would like to be on the receiving end of this?

Very appealing pity that more things can t be shared

I remember the communal showers at secondary school especially in the winter after either rugby or cross country full of sporty sweaty rigid teen boys lathering themselves up and getting closer and closer together before, dangerous but very exciting, enjoying a mass intermasturbation session. Inevitably we also involved our mouths!

STOP ✋ KEEP YOUR PRIVATE SEX PRIVATE NO NEED TO GROOM HERE STOP L!!

It is unfortunate that you seem to have adopted the false notion of "grooming" the younger of our (usually mixed up, and always inquisitive) species. This site would seem to encourage honest and detailed answers to those human conditions which trouble us. Do you honestly believe that the younger among us do NOT wonder about the feelings and insecurities with which they must surely wrestle on a daily basis? Why should a frank (and HANDS-OFF, I might add) revelation of one boy's journey through his own nascent sexuality be deemed as "grooming" another boy to make the same decisions or follow the same path? Yes, they MAY see themselves adopting the approach discussed in Lorelei's answer, but don't they deserve the right to know that such choices (and resultant actions) exist?
By suppressing any discussion or knowledge of such choices or feelings you surely doom a questioning youth to the torment of self-doubt and extended "fumbling in the dark" in a tortuous effort to find their true sexual self. Why would you want to cause them such emotional pain? Perhaps because YOU suffered it as well? I would not wish that upon you, or any other young man looking for the answers to the sexual confusion so many of us have had to endure. Perhaps hearing about such things here can lessen the confusion, and more quickly enable a surety of choices.

Yeah i get hard every time i am in the shower with my teem mates we are all masterbating at the same we are in the shower

As the youngest member of my high school soccer team, I remember one older teammate who took a special interest in me and showing me kindness and tips. He would always be around at the end of my shower and because I was shy & self-conscious, I always wore a jockstrap in the shower. He approached me afterward and commented that I might need a different size and as he was talking, I felt his fingers brush up against my jock. He told me to relax, and I felt his middle finger start to trace the outline of my penis. He was able to give me a Boner very easily. And before I really had time to absorb what was happening, I was shooting sperm through the fabric of my jock. It was the most intense experience I’ve ever had.

Yes, i like to look at the other boys penises in the shower room. I like looking at the bigger ones and sometimes my penis gets an erection. I also like to masterbate at home thinking about them!

Do you masturbate a lot?Can you cum yet?

I also look at other boys penises in the shower. I am 13 also and my penis is 1.5 ins. soft and i dont have any pubic hair yet. The other boys make fun of my baby penis!

It's natural to look you just want to compare penis size

Don't let your friends make fun of you,jerk off in the shower ,but if you like do it when you get hard at home