So my girlfriend and I have been sexually active for a few months now, I was her first. She masturbates occasionally but has never orgasmed doing so. She is 18 and never had another guy touch her except me. I am quite experienced sexually and have not had many issues in the past. When we are having sex she gets extremely wet especially if i go down on her first for a few minutes. She is a screamer, extremely loud when being intimate. Her feet tense up, she gets tingly, extremely hot, and feels like she is going to pee most of the time. I know she is being pleasured but I want her to experience the big boom like I do, so what is going on, what do I do to help her reach the big moment.
Hi,
That feeling your girlfriend gets - the one that fels like she's going to pee - thats her orgasm building.
Its hard - espesially hard, because her vagina is very sensitive- in this stage to release - eg to actually orgasm.
She needs to let go an give into that feeling in order to orgasm, if she's scared that she's going to pee - tell her not to worry and that she won't... Although, if she's a squirter it'll seem like she's peeing, but don't worry, she isn't... Its just her lady juices from a wonderful Orgasm.
And trust me, she'll thank you for it... Nothing, I repeat, Nothing, feels better than letting go and giving into that sweet yet torturous feeling!
Hope that helps.
I think the worse thing to do is try and stop peeing just as you are going to orgasm. You lose so much of the pleasure by doing that, or so she has found. The strange thing is that she goes for a pee before we have sex, but there's always enough pee for a long stream. I think an orgasm is all abut just letting go totally. She is one of those girls who take some time to orgasm, but when she does it's always very satisfying.