Girlfriend who is insulted by porn/masturbation

"The majority of porn shows women being degraded"

Uhm, no. Look at much porn? Guess not.

you just revealed that youre so jeaolus of the women who looks hotter than you. because youre insecure. that is what get you mad about your bf watching porn. it doesnt help. seen the guy in porn recently? they dont have big penises they have freak penises. it would make it worst if your boyfriend was mad at you because hes jealous. you would lose respect for him because of his insecurities. thats how he will see you it if go on like that. just ask him how can your sex life could be better instead

I'm a guy in a committed relationship. I agree with you 100%. To the guys out there: porn isn't worth your time. All it does is lock you in front of your computer when you could be interacting (sexually or non-sexually) with your girl friend. You are taking away from her. Calling it a natural thing is an excuse. It's all fake. The girl on the screen never did and never will care about you. There's a lot of problems porn doesn't fix. It covers. Not fix. It's just unhealthy for men. Look it up. Find some educated videos on YouTube and they'll tell you the same thing. It messes your system up.

Your reply is so feminist it's disgusting, but that's my opinion and we are all entitled to them. Here's the thing- I would love to be in an open relationship and run train on my gf but she won't have it. That's OK. If I want to watch porn then let me, don't try and stop me because I will do it anyways. As long as I am not cheating with another person then let it be, I am still faithful. After I finish jerking off, I am thinking about important things, bills, dates, work, vacation, and so on. My gf has said she doesn't like it, but I will watch what I want- what she doesn't know won't hurt her. Again, I am not pursuing other women, going to strip clubs, etc. Masturbating is an end of its own.

The best kind of relationship is one where everyone has similar interests and desires..

We only live one life, stop being such prudes and live it. If my significant other cannot accept what I like then I will next her in a heart beat. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Fact your watching porn updates and hurts your girlfriend... If you want to be honest with her you need to be honest with yourself... You seem to be surprised about how she feels about porn... Truth is your girl is absolutely normal... that is how women feel about their man watching porn... If a girl says she is cool with porn trust me... She is either lying for fear she will look like a prude or being cool will end quickly the day you slip up just a little & show one sign of being not in the mood, or get distracted by a woman... Your girl is probably the first girl you dated that was honest about the subject.
So if you wouldn't even consider giving up porn you should break up with her. I am sure the knowledge of your porn has already started to affect the way she feels about you & herself. She thinks that you think she is not enoughIt will affect your sex life too...She thinks that you think she is not enough.

If she's willing to create visual aids for him then I'd agree. Men and women are very different regarding sex. Men have highly visual needs. Looking at naked women or other porn helps facilitate the process when she isn't available. Saying he should only think of her is like saying a person has complete control over thoughts that enter their head. It's ignorant of reality and very intolerant of things beyond a man's control. No one, not even a spouse, should presume to have authority over another person's mind.

"I like it. It's just different." - that explains a lot, your gf is not enough, the same body, the same face everyday, but here with porn there are new girls, new things with NEW girls - that's the reason. What when ur gf got 45 and won't have that shape anymore, won't those girls in porns be more attractive than she? What's then?

Uhh...some girls actually don't care if their bf jerks off to porn. Its not really a big deal. If a girl sees it as some sort of reflection on her, then she has issues.
I know my bf watches porn and jerks off. I do it too. Its not a big deal, at all. I actually think its sexy. I ask him to send me jerk off videos when he's out of town.

The point isn't not masturbating. The point isn't her having to understand that, guys I do not get one thing: if you start dating someone, why don't you make sure that it is a woman/man who turn you on so much that no other naked individual will, that you will not feel turned on by someone else's looks and whenever you think about the person you date you'll see their face and body and will want to get off to that only? why can it not be like that and why do you date one woman/man, and you go looking for someone else's face and body in the act (being screwed or masturbating in front of a camera in porn movies) to masturbate and get orgasms? why isn't picturing your partner enough to get orgasms, and why don't you ask them naked pics or movies? or why don't you leave the partner if you see that you are sexually attracted to any other naked b***h (cause mentally and visually f*****g (imagining to) someone else even while watching a porn is actually virtually cheating, most people are too stupid to get it)? why?

Your comment has nothing to do with what hes talking about. Dancing with another guy in person is different than jacking off to a video thats been online for a possible year or more. Now going to a club, finding a partner to dance with, and to actually dance with them would be an act of disrespect. This is why at the beginning of any dating relationship, this should all already be spoken of. Jerking off to a screen is not the same as going out and actively looking for a partner to dance with at a club. Its behind the screen, its a video, not a live person in the flesh. Women and men both deserve to masturbate as their desires demand. Talk about this going into a relationship, not at the end of it. Masterbate together. Domt masterbate together. Become swingers for all i care. As long as you and your partner spoke of it before hand coming to an agreement then you can both f**k other people let alone dance with someone else. People have dofferent desires. If yoire someone who loves porn and wants to incorporate it into your acts of sex with your partner, then do it. But don't date someone who believes you'll die if you jack off or that its "the same as cheating" if thats what you enjoy doing and want to incorporate into your relationship. Thats what makes sense. Ps sorry for my rant and you all have some enjoyijg sex out there to the MAXX. Have fun and keep fisting.