Hi, I'm a 19 year old guy who has a girlfriend of about 2 years. We have regular sex, but it seems to me that when i masturbate her (either with my fingers or her vibrator) she doesn't really enjoy it. I've tried to ask her what she enjoys but she is really shy about the subject. Any suggestions?
That's a really good question actually and difficult to answer too.
I'm a woman and I can tell you that when I was younger and not married yet, guys I was with would sometimes do things I didn't like much and I felt uncomfortable telling them. I tried to fake enjoying it a few times even when they went wild with twisty fingers.
For a woman masturbation and sex can be hard topics to discuss openly. I would suggest you ask her to show you how she enjoys pleasing herself and then you can learn from this, if she's comfortable showing you. Mutual masturbation can be very sexy too.
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I’d say show her what you like to do when you masturbate & then maybe she will be
More comfortable with showing you what she likes to do when she masturbates.
& tell her theirs no reason to be shy, we all do it, ;-)
-AJ-
I’d say show her what you like to do when you masturbate & then maybe she will be
More comfortable with showing you what she likes to do when she masturbates.
& tell her theirs no reason to be shy, we all do it, ;-)
-AJ-
Thanks for the idea!