Hi
2 years ago i lost my virginity, protected. it was short and i hadn't done it again until 10 days ago. This time was also protected with a condom. it was definitly under 10 minutes and my partner didnt even ejaculate. as far as we both remember, withdrawel and everything was safe with no slips. he even filled the condom with water after wards and checks for holes-- there were none. i am not on birth control and i may have been fertile that day but the sex was DEFINITLY safe. about a week after it i had been feeling bloated and have tingling sensations in my lower abdomen. my boobs are also sore, but i am also due for my period in 6 days. the symptoms im experiencing are PMS but for some reason im so paranoid. im 18 and cannot get pregnant, even though im almost positive im not. he used a trojan brand condom and it was intact-- it was safe, right? i suffer from severe anxiety and i worry alot. ive read about false pregnancies that can be brought on by stress. im definitly stressing alot. i know i cant be prego but the bloating makes me think otherwise, although i know it would most likely be hard to tell if i was prego this soon.... anyways im so scared and cant get prego. definitly not having sex again til i get on birth control. i know alot of girls have bloating etc after losing their virginity and i consider this losing it because the first time was not legitimate. is what im experiencing normal? thanks
i am no doctor but im like you! the first few times i had sex i would always freak out and think im prego but i never was!! beig bloated after sex in general happens to me once in a while sounds weird ad i dont kno for sue but its like haveing air bubbles like inside you know!! everythings fine and you can always take a test to double check !