Hi. I am a 16 year old feamle which i am single and i just had intercourse for the first time. It really hurted a lot. Right after i had sex i bled and it never stopped, after i had sex i felt like i needed to pee like every 5 mins and now i have to urge for chocolate. Now i hve been bleeding for almost a day and i am not supposed to be getting my period for another month and a half. I also think that i might be pregnant. I was wonder what is wrong with me cause i need to know. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
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Some of your symptoms are perfectly normal but not the bleeding part. I don’t know how long you the bleeding but it is usually minor. However, some girls may bleed all they long and it is so true when they say things are individual.
Some girls hurt more some less while their first sexual experience. Mine was pretty uncomfortable but I was 19 when I did it and I may say I was more mature than you are at 16. This may have something to do with pain especially if you weren’t ready for the intercourse but it doesn’t have to mean it is the case.
Being scared and stiff could decrease the pleasure of the first time if there was any pleasure at all.
The peeing part is also normal. I don’t know the reason of it but many women who lose their virginity end up with urinary bacterial infections. Frequent urination is one of the symptoms.
If the bleeding persisted for more than two days, then you should see a gynecologist and have it checked. You should see a gynecologist as well now when you have lost your virginity.
Some girls hurt more some less while their first sexual experience. Mine was pretty uncomfortable but I was 19 when I did it and I may say I was more mature than you are at 16. This may have something to do with pain especially if you weren’t ready for the intercourse but it doesn’t have to mean it is the case.
Being scared and stiff could decrease the pleasure of the first time if there was any pleasure at all.
The peeing part is also normal. I don’t know the reason of it but many women who lose their virginity end up with urinary bacterial infections. Frequent urination is one of the symptoms.
If the bleeding persisted for more than two days, then you should see a gynecologist and have it checked. You should see a gynecologist as well now when you have lost your virginity.
I am 20 years old and my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and i have been having stomach pains during sex. Im wondering if it could be his size or the position maybe? He is pretty big and i am used to it. But when we have sex in certain positions it is uncomfortable. I dont know what else it could be?
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Why are you having sex at 16, shouldnt you be focus on school? anyhow, you should see a doctor if the bleeding dont stop