hello i'm this person's mother.....i told her over and over again that she is to young to get pregnant...and she knows this...we are waiting for something from her docter...but she can't take the pills because she gets really really dizzy on them and so on....i'm trying to find something else to put her on so she can still have safe sex with her lover....but she asked me what i would do if she got pregnant at the age of 15-16. I told her that i would make her go throw the pegnancy and the birth of the baby then give it up for adoption. i have talked to her lover and he said that if she got pregnant he will not leave her. the only reason i believe in him so much is i know that his father left when he was little and he doesn't what to be like him....but here is my question...if my daughter and her boyfriend have sex and she becomes pregnant am i being to hard on her...
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I am a parent as well, and this is just my opion...
If she was to become pregnant at this age you are allowing for this to happen, your telling her that she can continue to do this as long as she takes birth control.....Nothing is 100% safe there is still a slight chance for pregnacy to occure even while on birth control..I have known many friends to become pregnant while they were using contaceptives.....So my thing is, if she is sexually active and you are allowing for this, I would say that it really should be up to her and her b/f to decide on whether or not to keep the baby...If they are old enough to have intercourse, then they should be old enough to deal with the consequnces, even since you are allowing this to happen....See what Im saying??? What does his parents say about this?? Do you and them really want to give a grandbaby up for adoption??? If this were to happen??
Its like this you cant say to a child that thats bad and then reward the child for doing so...Or saying oh thats great, then punish them down for the road for doing so...Do ya see what I mean????
If she was to become pregnant at this age you are allowing for this to happen, your telling her that she can continue to do this as long as she takes birth control.....Nothing is 100% safe there is still a slight chance for pregnacy to occure even while on birth control..I have known many friends to become pregnant while they were using contaceptives.....So my thing is, if she is sexually active and you are allowing for this, I would say that it really should be up to her and her b/f to decide on whether or not to keep the baby...If they are old enough to have intercourse, then they should be old enough to deal with the consequnces, even since you are allowing this to happen....See what Im saying??? What does his parents say about this?? Do you and them really want to give a grandbaby up for adoption??? If this were to happen??
Its like this you cant say to a child that thats bad and then reward the child for doing so...Or saying oh thats great, then punish them down for the road for doing so...Do ya see what I mean????
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