I am currently sitting at Planned Parenthood about to have a medical abortion. I am about 6 weeks along.
I am married and have 3 children (two are his, 5 and 8 years old. Mine is 12) I lost my job last year and his is cutting hours drastically. We are about to lose our house and truck.
He wants to have a baby with me. I want to have one with him. But, we simply can't afford it. And honestly I hate being pregnant. I admit I am selfish. I also hate the thought of having even less alone time with my husband. I still haven't gotten to go to college, and I want to travel the world. When our kids are grown up I want to move someplace where I'll be happier.
He doesn't want to have an abortion, but he loves me and supports me. He is a great man. He is religious, I am not. Another reason why I know this is so hard on him.
He knows I am here. But I want to know if anyone can tell me a reason why a doctor would tell me this is a good idea and medically necessary.
I just want to try and help clear his conscience. He is the most amazing man, and I would do anything to put his mind at some ease. I know he would still hurt, but at least he wouldn't hurt as much because of a decision I made.
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i think its wondeful that he still supports whatever you choose to do. if it is absolutely necessary and no way possible that yall can raise this child do what you think is best.learn from this journey WITH YOUR HUSBAND and never doubt his sincere love for his child.i had an abortion many years ago and i remember it from time to time. i knew it was the best decision then and i also know i couldve survived the hard times bc... they come regardless of another child.I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK,DALPHY
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