I've been with my boyfriend for a few years now but i'd been hesitant to have more of a sexual relationship with him and i now he's had that type of relationship before so he is more experienced than me clearly! But for the first time he fingered me the other day and after about on hour i got very strong abdominal pains and pain in my lower back, it went away after about anhour but i'm wondering if it was just because my body wasn't used to it? Also, if and when I have sex with him, will i get that sort of pain again because obviously i'm a virgin. Sorry, i'm embarrassed about this but i am worried a little. :$
this sounds normal, it could be "pink ovaries" which is the female version of what men commonly call "blue balls. in both men and women there is a process called vasocongestion during arousal, which means blood pools in some relevant places...
the pooling of that blood can cause some discomfort if it happens for a long time, orgasm kickstarts the process of moving that blood away so if you were aroused for a fair period of time and didn't reach orgasm that would explain it.
the pooling of that blood can cause some discomfort if it happens for a long time, orgasm kickstarts the process of moving that blood away so if you were aroused for a fair period of time and didn't reach orgasm that would explain it.