If you have normal sex 1st then get your partner to use a dildo with the vibrated thing on the end in ur vagina then if relAxed enough it might hurt but not as much, and feels amazing!
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No says you can't do it, but I am so tired of reading these expert try it you'll like it BS articles. The truth is most women, while not forced are verbally and mentally coerced into it. Prolapse, hpv which causes rectal cancer and is very common, hemmeroids, tearing, anal wall punctured, and icontenene ate real risks. Instead asking here you can read medical journals online where they have found that most lubricants are damaging to the anus and tissues in some cases they destroy important bacteria and cells, so just using a lot of lube is not a fix all. Most medical papers on the subject are based on gay male activity because it is difficult to find women that will participate, but that really is a non issue since an anus is an anus weather it be straight, gay, male or female. Most of those studies found that up to 25% of participants experience some form of incontinence from long term anal sex. I would also like to point out that most gay couples do not pratice penetration every time they have sex. It is also important to note that a person who has never experienced anal sex will not have any idea of "too rough". Most porn on the whole will never show the rough strapon or gay anal you see in straight porn. Most men get their informatiom from porn or other unreliable sources. Such as friends. Also very frequent enemas are not good for you either, but not being clean has its own risks.
My point is this, even those who enjoy anal should not do so very frequently because many issues related to it are catch 22. I personally do engage in infrequent anal, but it is not an every day thing. And doing it solely for the pleasure of your man without any reciprocity is wrong, I would say that a truly loving caring partner should be interested in you satisfaction as well as their own. For instance, acting out your fantasy or allowing you to penetrate him anally is only fair. If he is only interested in his own gratification, then I personally would not do it, because the intention is wrong and can be dangerous.
My point is this, even those who enjoy anal should not do so very frequently because many issues related to it are catch 22. I personally do engage in infrequent anal, but it is not an every day thing. And doing it solely for the pleasure of your man without any reciprocity is wrong, I would say that a truly loving caring partner should be interested in you satisfaction as well as their own. For instance, acting out your fantasy or allowing you to penetrate him anally is only fair. If he is only interested in his own gratification, then I personally would not do it, because the intention is wrong and can be dangerous.
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well i tryed anal with my fiance and the first time we didnt use lub and i did bleed and it scared me because i didnt know i was suppost to bleed and now im scared to even try it again but we did try it again this past week and it hurt really bad and i didnt even let him put his penis in my anus all the way..and i did bleed alittle bit. but i told him it feels like you are shoving my poop back in me and its not comfortable.is that what its suppost to happen? and you said your anus was fine,but after we tryed my anus still hurt. what do i do? or do you have any advice?
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play anal sex safe ....initially with condom , bcoz bacteria may hurt ....while f*****g to p***y after anal.so be safe
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at all. "as risky as oral sex"? Again, YOURE STICKING YOUR penis IN sh*t. U know that smell that comes out ur as****e when u sh*t? Well...ur sticking ur penis in it. And ur mouth doesnt have sh*t in it. Ur putting bacteria in the same realm as c**p, really? And ooh yea, a fissure is no big deal. Its only an abnormal tear which btw, oh right, it involves sh*t. Heres my weiner, lemme stik in ass c**p, inside a place that has swam in sh*t since birth. Right...just like oral sex.
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cant it rip causing bad problems and is there any anal leakage if you do it tooo much
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I can't believe how much ignorance and scaremongering there is here. It is perfectly safe and enjoyable. Just take a few obvious and elementary precautions.
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it hurts a little bit the first time of course. But believe me, it is worth it. you have to do it properly though and be very lubricated... if you do that and relax you will have the best orgasm. my husband and i do it and i love it .
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the first few times it will hurt. make sure there is lubrication from the female, male or fake it will make the process much easier. for me it took about 3 times for me to get used to it, just remember if you let a man in there it is like spoiling them. but give it a try and make sure he is understanding to go slow and be gentle the first few times.
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I just had anal sex right now it only hurts if your doing it wrong..RELAX you anus, lay on your side and you insert his penis in but take it slow...
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Anal sex is natures condom....you can't expect man and woman to be together for the rest of their lives and have 30 children....that's just simply impractical. Jerking off get's boring as well. Lighten up....if god didn't want us to have anal sex, he would have put the ass hole on our foreheads....
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My fiance and I just recently tried anal sex and it wasn't bad at all. That's because before he inserted his penis into my anus, he started with one finger . He did that for about a minute or so . Then he moved on to two finger , did that for about another minute so the sphincter could get used to it. Then finally came the penis. I was scared because there was a time when we were having sex and he accidentally put the head of his penis into my anus and it hurt so I was expecting the same this but when he put it in this time, it didn't hurt at all. The only thing is that it felt weird but other that as he kept going it felt better. I believe it also helped that I had my legs were wide open for him to put his penis into my anus.
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