A) Where exactly in the Vagina is the G-spot located?
B) Do I need to use any kind of oil (Grape seed oil may be)?
C) Is the above statement true?
D) If yes, how long of a stimulation does she need on an average?
Most women, if they can identify their G-spot, will tell you that it's on the forward front wall, about an inch or two inside the vagina. You can best touch it by inserting one finger when she's laying on her back, and doing a "come here" crooking of that index finger.
It can sometimes feel like a puckered, raised swelling about the size of a quarter. But not all women like it, and not all will have the same reaction.
As for how long it takes, that's an individual preference. You'll have to ask her. She may not come from stroking it. She may just get really hot. She may also feel that you're manipulating her. You've got to talk to her about it.
"How do you like this?" "Would you like anything else?" "Are you enjoying this? Harder? Faster? Slower? Softer?"
These are all good questions to ask. Each time you change partners, you need to relearn their response. Each one will be different. So, ask her.
Good luck!
B: not really you just need to get her good and wet. try rubbing her clit a little or performing oral sex till shes good and turned on.
C: not really it depends on how pleasurable she thinks it is.
D: it all depends on the girl. some girls its like 2 mins others its 20 mins
Hope this helped! good luck and have fun ;) if you know what i mean
I was never able to find it. Not even my boyfriend was. So, I always had this question rolling over my whole mind. I don't have a proper answer. Even once my boyfriend asked me: "What is wrong with you, how to find your gspot?
So, now I do believe that there is nothing wrong with me since he believed that he is going to find my gspot very easily and that I will be able to cum within 10 minutes.
But to be honest, he didn't even try to find it for more than 10 minutes.
I think that it is time for us to go back to the job, thank you for that advice :)
Ok.... The G-Spot is the rough-feeling place on the front upper inside of her vagina, kind of just "behind" her clitoris. It sort of feels like the roof of your mouth. This rough spot is meant to excite both her and you by stimulating the coronal ridge of your penis to bring you to orgasm so you can ejaculate your sperm inside her. But you can massage it by hand to lovely, intense effect, and likely bring her to orgasm from this alone. In concert with her clit and nipples etc., you should be able to get her there on a regular basis. It's possible she may even squirt from it!
But remember, her orgasm is not just driven by her clit (or her nipples, her belly button, her anus, her mouth) or even her G-Spot. In short, the physical sensations you create with your fingers are only a PART of what goes into her orgasm. Most of it is actually in her head. The BRAIN, your MIND really drives your body when it comes to orgasms. The brain takes the sensations you create and mixes them with memories, fantasies, images and other stuff in her mind to begin the process that culminates in orgasm. A lot has been written about that, here and elsewhere, but it bears repeating. Orgasm is a delicate dance you do together (or with yourself). Lots of things go into making it happen, including strong feelings of love for a partner. Lots of things can also get in the way -- subconscious fear of punishment, thoughts of being "bad", thoughts of failure to excite her, etc., even desires for a particular, absent partner can distract you or detract from the pleasure you want and deserve. She may need to give herself PERMISSION -- the freedom -- to have and enjoy the orgasm(s) you know she deserves.
So, keep exploring the sensations your bodies can create, and Good Luck!