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Im 36 years old and i have been trying to have a baby for ten years now .I had my first son when i was 17 years old and then went on the pill 6 weeks after he was born i spent 10 years taking the pill . but ast night my husband and i had sex and it was different this time. then this moring I woke up with alot of cramps in my belly and in my back with a bad headache . I have this sticky white discharge . I am on a 28 day cycle every month have not been late in a long time . and last night was a high fertile day my next period is due july 26 is there a chance i could be pregant and could i have syptoms the next day . i also never get cramps with my period or food cravings but for some reason today i have cramps the go from my belly to my back and i cant stop with the candy and i smoke cigs and for some reason today i couldnt even finish one and that happened with my son 19 years ago . so please can someone help me coud i be pregant and have syptoms the day after i had sex 
sorry wish i could help..mi problem is kind of similar but go see a doctor
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It's funny because some women seem to the know the moment they conceive, maybe you are one of them. Pregnancy symptoms never show up the following day, just some keen intuition. Some women want to have a baby so badly that every little ache and pain is somehow associated with the fact that they MUST be pregnant, nine out of ten times, they aren't. The only thing that you can do at this time is to wait it out and keep having sex for a couple more days, you are ovulating and this is your time to shine.

If you don't get your period when it's scheduled to come, wait 3 or 4 days and get a pregnancy test, but stop smoking anyway. When i used to ovulate i remember eating sweets like no tomorrow. I would eat sugar for a few days then just totally stop all at once. I'm not trying to burst your bubble here and i know how much you want another child, but don't get ahead of yourself as you could end up dissapointed.

So....have a lot of sex (practice makes perfect) and wait it out. I'm sure God will smile on you soon, if he hasn't already;-)

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so i had sex on friday saturday and sunday and ovulated on monday then monday night i started to bleed it was red in color but i didnt have to wear a pad it was only when i went to the bathroom and today its dark brown and stopping but during this time since sunday i have had cramps and really bad back pain could i still be pregnant i need help because i am losing my mind over it and i dont have insureance yet and i cant pay to see a doctor yet I have also been feeling sick the last two days since the spotting started could i still be pregnant
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Morning mrskaroake,

  Sometimes when a women ovulates, she will experience some slight spotting and cramping, this is normal for some. On the other side, there are women who ovulate and don't even know it. You were quite active in the few days leading up to ovulation and this is good. Sperm can live in our bodies for some days after ejaculation and find there way to their destination with ovulation. Ovulation says that you are releasing an agg and the live sperm that is already in that neighborhood could make their way to this egg, called conception.

So with a little luck, you may be pregnant at this time. You won't know until you miss a period. You may start to feel different just before your period is scheduled to start and if your cycle is like clockwork and nothing happens, you just may be pregnant. There are some home pregnancy tests on the market that will detect the pregnancy hormone days before your period even starts. They cost about 15.00.

Just try and relax. I know that you are wanting desperatly to have a baby but don't work yourself up over it. Stressing and worrying and wondering will only postpone your period anyway.

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well just to let everyone know i still dont know if im pregnant yet i was due for my period yesterday but didnt get it so itook a home test this morning and it said no does this mean im not pregnant or i still might be how much longer should i wait to retest if i still dont get my period 
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If your period doesn't come by next week, i would take another test. Did you get the kind with 2 tests in the box?
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bbfeet9 wrote:

mrskaraoke wrote:

well just to let everyone know i still dont know if im pregnant yet i was due for my period yesterday but didnt get it so itook a home test this morning and it said no does this mean im not pregnant or i still might be how much longer should i wait to retest if i still dont get my period 


If your period doesn't come by next week, i would take another test. Did you get the kind with 2 tests in the box?

no I am very low on money have have no medical insurance so i cant even go to the doctor as of yet in florida they dont give give free medicad unless your 65 or pregnant and without it i cant go see a doctor because my husband is disabled at 34 permently and that is all the income we have which leaves us with $30 for food for the month they think he makes to much but when your with child they give it to you but before you think that is not why we want a child we have been trying for 6 years even before we moved to forida and i lost my insurance we have only been here a year and we are going back home to ny in the next few month i hope if everything works out but in the mean time we both want a baby so bad

but as of this morning I had some very light pink spotting only when i went to the potty and it was for about a hour and now its gone ....
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