Question:
i have just turned 14 i have had this thought going through my head for awhile now im pretty positive im bi ive kissed girls before but never a guy but im really curious and i really want to kiss a guy i know that other people my age or older or whatever are curious to but should i act on my feelings.
If i should act on it one of my very good freinds i know has shown signs of flirting with me i know mostly everything about him and he knows mostly everything about me excpet me being bi and yesterday i saw him and i felt a very strong urge just to kiss him right there but for obvious reasons i didnt i WILL not talk to my parents about this cause id be too embarrassed i do have a freind who i trust my life with who i could tell but i dont know how hed act.
if i could get any advice thatd be most helpful. Sorry if this is in the wrong place
~jacob~
i have just turned 14 i have had this thought going through my head for awhile now im pretty positive im bi ive kissed girls before but never a guy but im really curious and i really want to kiss a guy i know that other people my age or older or whatever are curious to but should i act on my feelings.
If i should act on it one of my very good freinds i know has shown signs of flirting with me i know mostly everything about him and he knows mostly everything about me excpet me being bi and yesterday i saw him and i felt a very strong urge just to kiss him right there but for obvious reasons i didnt i WILL not talk to my parents about this cause id be too embarrassed i do have a freind who i trust my life with who i could tell but i dont know how hed act.
if i could get any advice thatd be most helpful. Sorry if this is in the wrong place
~jacob~
hey dude. im a girl. almost 14. i think you should let your feelings out. you will feel so much better! me and my best friend almost kissed but we didnt. im not a lesbian or bi just curious. yeah i cant tell my parents anything either! if you think he is flirting act on it. just try. tell me how it goes.
ps I love your name!! lol
ps I love your name!! lol
where kinda in the same boat then lol
except i definately know im bi [even though i've never kised a guy]
I've felt like i wanted to kiss one of my other guy friends
cause I like love him, he doesnt know how i feel but, it feels horrible when im around him and i cant say anything.
I wont tell my parents ANYTHING about my life
My advice, tell one of your other friends how you feel, if you'e got any close gay/bi friends or a best friend thats a girl or something, they do tend to understand more, and are probably less likelyto judge you.
hope that helped :-D
except i definately know im bi [even though i've never kised a guy]
I've felt like i wanted to kiss one of my other guy friends
cause I like love him, he doesnt know how i feel but, it feels horrible when im around him and i cant say anything.
I wont tell my parents ANYTHING about my life
My advice, tell one of your other friends how you feel, if you'e got any close gay/bi friends or a best friend thats a girl or something, they do tend to understand more, and are probably less likelyto judge you.
hope that helped :-D
ok, im a chick..im 16 and a junior in high school. ive been bi ever since 6 grade. now in my opinion you can only be bisexual if you've actually done THINGS with a guy/girl lol. i dont wanna insult anybody i swear! cause i did the same thing. 6 grade i didnt have a full grasp of what bisexual was...and since id never kissed a girl before i was probably only bi-curious. you may have sex or kiss or wutever with a guy/girl and realize u dont like it. thats wut happened to my best friend a month ago. she said she liked me and she kissed me and i loved it...she thought it was ok, then we ended up having sex and shes like...'yeah i dont like this' so she went back to being straight...-.- which hurt me alot. but anyway i digress...i wouldnt say you were completely bisexual until you have done something with someone. as for telling ur parents...i havent told my parents yet, im waiting until im 18 and a legal adult so they understand i can make my own decisions.
well im a girl im 16 and i was bi - curious in 6 grade. im pretty sure thats wut you guys are. you have urges to kiss a guy/girl. but technically you're not bisexual until you've had sex with someone of the same sex. i mean for me i had urges to kiss my friends in middle school but all my friends were straight. now that im a junior in high school almost ALL my friends are gay or bi. and i'd never had sex with a girl before until my sophmore year. My best friend and i had kissed and i was falling in love with her, but at my bday we had sex and she figured out she didnt like it. she only liked kissing me because i was gentler than her past bfs. i was her first girl kiss and her realizing she wasnt bi or gay kinda hurt me. but i digress lmao. cause ya'll are kinda young for that stuff xD sorry.
but anyway, my parents have NO idea about me liking girls...i say tell ur parents when u r 18. i know its a long ass wait but 1 it gives u time to mature and 2 gives u time to figure out if its a phase or not.
as for telling someone u like them, i say go for it. if they reject you...theres plenty of fish in the sea.
but anyway, my parents have NO idea about me liking girls...i say tell ur parents when u r 18. i know its a long ass wait but 1 it gives u time to mature and 2 gives u time to figure out if its a phase or not.
as for telling someone u like them, i say go for it. if they reject you...theres plenty of fish in the sea.
Hey Jacob,
I'm Max and I'm 16. I can't really tell you what you should do, but if I could I would say go for it. If you really like him and he likes you then you should go all the way and not hold back. But before you do, make sure he feels the same. Like hint at things like relationships. Or if you guys are hanging out, just say something like "Man, we'd be a pretty hot couple" or something. Just make sure he's not teasing you so you don't get heartbroken. Goodluck little dude.