one week ago i had sex for the first time.. it was hurting but when we stoped didnt feel anything.. it was dark so i didnt know if i lost my virginity ; i went to the toilet so it was like 2 drops of blood on the hanky..after 5 or 6 hours i realized that i'm in my periode and i had my stomac and back pain........ soo plzz i'm in need to know if i lost my virginity or there is any physical way to be sure that i'm still a virgin......
It sounds to me like you have lost your virginity. There probably would be a lot more bleeding if you haven’t gotten your period, but if it was full sexual intercourse it’s hard to not to lose your virginity. When you are a virgin there is a small piece of fleshy skin which is attached to sides on the beginning of your vagina and it leaves just a small opening for a menstrual blood to pass. When you lose your virginity this piece is torn (that’s why it hurts and bleeds) and vagina becomes much more open. Only way I can think of is to check is this still there, but it almost certainly isn’t.