I have a boyfriend and I would like to have oral sex with him. I know that one thing remains true in all oral sex encounters, and that is how good oral sex starts with good communication. However, we are both to shy to talk about this, so I cannot find out what he likes. That is why I need advice because I want him to enjoy the most. Can you tell me how do girls give guys head?
First, you have to know it has been called fellatio, which is oral sex performed on a man. Although the penis is a generally sensitive organ, there are many areas of the penis, which are not particularly responsive to stimulation. When learning how do girls give guys head, you must concentrate on the most sensitive areas of the penis. The first area on your boyfriends’ penis, which is particularly sensitive, is the frenulum. This is the area just below the head of his penis on the underside. This is perhaps the most sensitive part of the penis. The seam of the penis, which runs from the scrotum to the head, the base of the penis, and the entire head of the penis are other sensitive areas you should treat. When girls give guys head, they can concentrate on these by licking or sucking just around the particular area. You should open your lips slowly while keeping your teeth apart and there you have it. Another important aspect of fellatio is lubrication, where most people use their own saliva as lubrication. If you are using a condom for fellatio, try to buy an un-lubricated variety, because lubricated condoms tend to have a bad taste.
For me, and for many guys, the best head is what is called the deep throat method. It is something you have to learn, because it requires taking control of your "gag reflex" mechanism. I don't know if everyone can learn it or not. But I am told that it has advantages even for the girl, because then you won't get the slimy feel or taste of cum (unless you WANT that, of course). In my experience, more guys than girls are good at doing deep throat, maybe because a guy knows better how to please another guy. Just some thoughts. Good luck.
heyy i have a boyfriend and i gave him oral sex for the first time....trust me if you cannot do deep throat the first time...dont worry its not a big deal i tried and i oculdnt do and its very rare for a girl to do this.... if you lick the tip and suck it a bit it will turn your guy on alot the first time i did it my boyfriend thought i was a pro and im sure you will do fine...just put the mouth on and DO IT (:
good luck!!!!!!!!!!
good luck!!!!!!!!!!
There is more than one kind of communication too. Most of the time, my sex partners and I have had little if any of it. But I like to make sounds when I'm getting blown, to let my partner know if I like or don't like something. It seems to work. Foreplay is another way of communicating too, because once the arousal has built, you don't much need communication.