I do it in my room watching porn on computer. But since i do not have the luxury of being alone at my place everytime i m turned on and wanna mast**bate, i have devised a unique method of mastrubation. It just requires me to be alone in the room, i dont even need to bolt the door.
The method: I dont slide my hand up and down. I dont even hold my penis. I dont take off either my shorts or my briefs. I just press my penis against my scrotum repeatedly from above my shorts using my three fingers. When my penis begins to get hard, i stop for a while until its semi erect or limp. So, most of the time during the act, my penis is either limp or semi erect. When it gets erect, it becomes difficult pressing it, thats why i have to make it limper. The whole act can go for a long while in this way. When i finally ejaculate, i press my penis tightly so that my briefs dont get wet. My penis is not completely erect when i ejaculate, it sometimes is limp even. After completion, i go the washroom and urinate, the blocked smene comes out with the urine. Not alway am i able to stop the semen from wetting my briefs, in fact they get wet most of the time but the extent of wetness (or the amt of semen that comes out in the briefs) varies. I put on the same wet briefs only, i dont change them. After an hour or two, the wetness goes away. And i wash my groin with soap and water the next day.
Now i dont know if this method is unhealthy or not but i have been enjoying myself like this since three years thrice a week (i m 20 right now). And uptil now there havent been any problems although sometimes when i happen to do the stimulation (and not ejaculation) for a long time at repeated intervals in a single day, my penis starts hurting, i msure it happens with everyone. Plz advise me on this. Is this right?
Guys, guys, guys. do whatever makes you happy! tugg it or press it in sure it feels awsome lol. so i may not know much about this being a 13 year old girl and all but just do what your most comfortable with
15 year old here. I used to do something similar, and all I can say is STOP RIGHT NOW! What you will probably have when you have sex is something called Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome, or TMS. What usually happens is, because you don't get aroused by masturbating the traditional way, you might not be able to that've an orgasm while having sex. The only way stop break that habit is to stop from masturbating altogether for a few months. Then, re-learn how to do it right. It worked for me.
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your method of masturbating is not helping your total sexual development. when you eventually move onto wanting sexual activity with a mate (male or female) your penis will experience skin to skin friction to bring you to ejaculation. this is the normal manner of sexual intercourse. do not stop what you are doing but sometimes masturbate normally with your hand touching your penis and allow your sperm to fully ejaculate. your present method is solitary and isolated ...not a good preparation for sexual union with another.