If emotions are guiding your decisions, protect yourself from unwanted pain by checking out if what they're telling you is true. If it turns out to be true, then that's a comforting feeling, right? But, if it sounds too good to be true, get some certainty before getting too deeply involved. Here's a resource I came across that may to help you gain stronger confidence in finding out the truth http://tinyurl.com/8mvsern  Here's hoping your frog turns out to be a true prince! I only wish I did this sooner. - Imogen T.