Guys, I need your help now more than ever. It is not for me, it is for my cousin Karen. She is 28 years old and she is pregnant. Finally! They wanted to have this baby for more than 5 years (they are married for 9 years now).
They did it so they were super happy. But Karen started to feel weird and I recognized her problem immediately - anxiety and panic attacks. Doctors confirmed it.
I want to help her but I don't know how. How to cope with anxiety and panic attacks while being pregnant?
I really need some help soon.
It is very stressful for pregnant girl. Very often ladies do have panic attacks when they are pregnant. They are scared and this is something that I do understand. You need to understand that pregnancy is life changing event and it can affect every women.
You should be there for her and you should advice her to start to think about something else, not about those panic attacks. Slow, deep breath can also reduce those attacks.
Tell her also to try to imagine some nice, peaceful place, she can imagine that she is there.
Also, healthy and balanced diet program can help as well.
On the other hand, if she just wants to learn how to cope with it, she can find some useful techniques and tricks online, these should be able to help her.
Pregnancy is a new time in every woman's life. Somehow, it is normal that they are acting differently but anxiety and panic attacks can be really cruel to pregnant girl. I agree with Guest, I would recommend psychotherapy as well because I think that this really matters. She can't deal with this on her own because it's important to realize that some people, especially girl that develop anxiety attacks never lose them, even when they are the result of pregnancy hormonal changes. I support the idea of learning some trick online, but there is not better tricks than those that expert can recommend.
She didn't want to listen to me when I told her that she has classical signs of anxiety. I know to recognize it because I am too much into it. She told me that she believes that her hormones are getting wild and that is the reason because she is panicking a lot lately.
My good friend is psychiatrist and he really helped me a lot. I am thinking about suggesting him to go with me next time and to try to talk to her, but I am scared that I will just make it worse.
I can see that she is getting worse day by day...
I had the exact same problem and I didn't go to the doctor nor to a psychologist. I found this website that explained quite well how to fight anxiety and panic attacks and how to cope with these, especially if you are pregnant. I didn't believe it at first but once I've started doing those things I felt such a relief. I'm afraid that I no longer remember the website or the techniques that I have used but I am sure that you can find these somewhere on the internet if you would just search for techniques to overcome anxiety and panic attacks.
It is OK for her to act and feel differently during the pregnancy. Actually, a lot of people doesn't know that anxiety and stress during pregnancy are more common than you might think and that even women who have never had a panic attack before may experience one while they're expecting. I think that she should not try anything alone, she should seek for help. In lot of cases, a combination of cognitive and behavioral therapies will definitely help. Cognitive therapy can help people to feel much better, to think positively instead of negative thoughts. Behavioral therapies, such as mindfulness exercises, also may help. But, she needs to consult with someone.
Well, if the doctor is the one who told her that she is suffering from anxiety and panic attacks, then he should have told her what to do about it as well, I don't know which doctor would tell her that she is suffering from these things and give her no advice regarding how to treat them or how to at least learn how to cope with them.
There are some teas made specially for anxiety, she should ask in the pharmacy for these, they will know there, they are very good and will significantly decrease the amount of stress that she is experiencing.