Hello, i get a wet dream like once every four or five months. Thats why i go for masturbation to release excess sperm and semen that have been piling up for upto 2 weeks. But masturbation is always addictive, you do it today and the next day you feel the urge to do it again. Is there any way i can eat certain foods or have a certain style of diet or sleep to drasticly increase the frequency of wet dreams? After all, wet dreams are the natural way to release extra sperm right? I wanna give the control to my body and not my desire to masturbate. Thanks alot.
Hey man, wet dreams are great and they are a natural release, but so is masturbation. There is no reason to view getting off privately as a bad thing, even if you do it every day. I have varied between once a week and once a day at different times in my life and there has been no negative or positive result either way. Listen to your body bud, and just chill :-)
Do not be ashamed of masturbation, it is perfectly normal and perfectly healthy... for both us women and guys too. It feels great, no one gets hurt and you dont need to worry about calling the next day! (great stress reliever too)
Yes, I agree that this is normal, especially in his age, but the biggest problem is that this can become a problem. It can become an addiction. It is ok that you want to quit masturbating, of course, you should not avoid it totally, but you should do it less often than you are doing it now.
Anyway, about the question - you are way too young I think. I think that this issue about your wet dreams will go away by itself and that you should not be that stressed about this.
In this case, the only thing that you can actually do about this is to masturbate less.
masturbation is normal and shouldnt be viewed as a negative action or in any way unnatural. in fact it has been proven in scientific studies that masturbation helps to prevent prostate cancer in men due to the release of old built up liquids so the new ones can then be made. it also expels any harmful carcinogens, chemicals, and other such things that might be building up which is the cause of cancerous tissue in the first place. so you can do yourself a favor and masturbate for your health every so often.
masturbation can be negative in only one way. when masturbation starts to completely take over your life and becomes a hinderence on any other activities that you would normally be doing, then that is when masturbation is bad for you.
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liviingtrue i respect your opinion, but masturbation i very healthy and for most people it wont ever be a problem. i would like to see proof the information of why you think its unhealthy. please list your sources.
masturbation can be negative in only one way. when masturbation starts to completely take over your life and becomes a hinderence on any other activities that you would normally be doing, then that is when masturbation is bad for you.
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liviingtrue i respect your opinion, but masturbation i very healthy and for most people it wont ever be a problem. i would like to see proof the information of why you think its unhealthy. please list your sources.
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There are two senses of the word "normal" - "normal" as in widespread, and "normal" as in healthy. Masturbation may be widespread, but it is not healthy. Every time it occurs it causes the stem cells of the bone marrow to divide. In older age, when there are fewer of these cells left due to masturbation, the body has difficulty repairing itself.
The whole reason that masturbation has become common is that momentary pleasure is seductive, and those taking the advice of those who suggest it do not maintain a sense of themselves longer than the advice itself.
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Glands enlarge due to too much stimulation. The heart enlarges when it has difficulty pumping blood. The prostate gland enlarges from incorrect usage.
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What is good is to find creative interests.
dude you know wayyyy too much just gotts take a chill and stop thinkin about all the facts about things that will make your life worser then masturbation will
My Opinion
Masturbation does not take human life. There is a difference between sperm and a real live, breathing, human being.
Sperm is only a piece of DNA in a capsule. It can not think, It does not feel. Sperm is no more a human being then cell that grow anywhere else on your body.
Masturbating is only bad if it consumes your life.
My opinion is, people are blinded by their faith. Most people are incapable of thinking for themselves. Please if you are reading this do me a favor, think of the last time you created a significant new thought or choice.
The Unbiased Truth
People are brought up under a certain lifestyle, and they simply never change, I myself included. I was brought up under a scientific household, and I see it as the 'truth'. I know a person named Ben. he was brought up under a religious household, and he views it as the 'truth'. I think his views are wrong, that he has been blinded by false truths, and he thinks that I'm a unbeliever who will go to hell. We really aren't that different but we will never know. We will think we are above the other person, that we are right and they are wrong, and we will raise our kids the same way.
I'm not going to preach my opinions like they are the truths, but I'm going to threat them as just that, opinions. I'm not asking you to accept my own thoughts as your own. I'm only human. I'm asking you to give me a fair chance, and to listen to what I have to say before pelting me with rotten apples.
Masturbation does not take human life. There is a difference between sperm and a real live, breathing, human being.
Sperm is only a piece of DNA in a capsule. It can not think, It does not feel. Sperm is no more a human being then cell that grow anywhere else on your body.
Masturbating is only bad if it consumes your life.
My opinion is, people are blinded by their faith. Most people are incapable of thinking for themselves. Please if you are reading this do me a favor, think of the last time you created a significant new thought or choice.
The Unbiased Truth
People are brought up under a certain lifestyle, and they simply never change, I myself included. I was brought up under a scientific household, and I see it as the 'truth'. I know a person named Ben. he was brought up under a religious household, and he views it as the 'truth'. I think his views are wrong, that he has been blinded by false truths, and he thinks that I'm a unbeliever who will go to hell. We really aren't that different but we will never know. We will think we are above the other person, that we are right and they are wrong, and we will raise our kids the same way.
I'm not going to preach my opinions like they are the truths, but I'm going to threat them as just that, opinions. I'm not asking you to accept my own thoughts as your own. I'm only human. I'm asking you to give me a fair chance, and to listen to what I have to say before pelting me with rotten apples.
Why do people write such BS, stem cells, like sperm cells (and unlike egg cells) aren't limited, and sperm cells have nothing to do with stem cells, they come from division of existing cells in the testes. Each ejaculate has about 240,000,000 sperm per millilitre, but whats the bother, you make about 30,000,000 red blood cells a day, and never run out of those - Didnt see people getting anaemic as they get old. Enjoy your masturbation, the church, not God has a lot to answer for in creating shame as a result of pleasure. Some people do have big opinions with no factual basis!
uhh nobody is asking the poor guy's question
try lucid dreaming
try lucid dreaming
havent tried it but i heard if u eat peanut butter before u hit the sack it will give u dreams but not nessasaraly wet ones
Sorry ... your theory does not make any sense. Scientific studies shows that every time you have sex with a partner or by means of masturbation, it releases endorphins in brain that releases stress that is the cause of so many adult diseases in world now. Haven't heard about stem cells in brain dividing every time one masturbates but if they did that is a good thing when u reach the old age because you would be having double the number of stem cells that is required for damage repair for the body. Lastly if you accept that male masturbation takes amounts to the taking of a life you are wrong because you will be the culprit ay way as long as you are not impregnating someone once in 3 days or something because your body is going to throw all those precious sperms anyway :D :D
Yeah, seriously. Way to take the thread of a guy who wants more wet dreams and turn it into a debate about whether masturbation is healthy (which it is).
And yeah, lucid dreaming techniques can help. I'm no expert, so wouldn't want to instruct you, but there's alot of info on the web if you look.
Hypnosis is known to work for certain people as well, can't hurt to try.
And yeah, lucid dreaming techniques can help. I'm no expert, so wouldn't want to instruct you, but there's alot of info on the web if you look.
Hypnosis is known to work for certain people as well, can't hurt to try.
Your both showing very opisite sides of view, our bodys are built around cave man mecanics. they dident have time to rest they were always out hunting for there food or w.e. so we have ebvolved to not need to ejaculate so frequently. limit yourself if you want to keep your testosterone at its peak once every 2 weeks is perfect. for wet dreams you have to get plenty of sleep and not masturbate.
lucid dreaming is indeed a viable option. It is possible to have a lucid dream every night, with sufficient training/practice - at that point you are free to pursue any fantasies, and if your PC muscle is untrained it will generally result in a quick release, with training of the pc muscle you may prevent any said sloppiness.
To begin lucid dreaming i suggest attempting to view your HAND while in sleep. There are a great deal of books on the subject, I suggest reading something by Stephen LaBerge.
To begin lucid dreaming i suggest attempting to view your HAND while in sleep. There are a great deal of books on the subject, I suggest reading something by Stephen LaBerge.