Hhmm...i wana ask...hhmm..does mastubation cause the break hymen..?
Hey.
Personally, I have what is called a "normal hymen". I couldn't find any small elastic type of stretchy skin around my vagina entrance if my life depended on it. It's always been this way ever since I can remember. I'm 22 years and engaged to the most wonderful man I ever hoped to meet.
I always thought the cherry was the roundish lump inside on the front side of the vagina wall (the side the bladder is on). This bled the first time I was fingered. Dr. said that was fine. We stopped when it first started, and I've noticed it changed shape a little after that. Am I right in thinking that lump is the cherry? (It's never changed or moved or "grown", so I assumed it was a natural part of the vagina, and since it was partially round and very smooth, hence why I thought it was the "cherry")
As far your girlfriend lying to you about still being a virgin yet she's not tight anymore, could be because she may be using some sex toys or had used in recent past. If you've fingered her a lot beforehand, that can stretch her out, too. And, just as there is a variety of sizes of penises, there is also a variety of sizes of vaginas. A friend of mine was extremely tight before she got married, to the point where she couldn't even fit a tampon of any size.
I experienced a lot of stretching during some foreplay once, but it regained its tightness after a couple days. Just as tight as I was before.
So, my point is: your girlfriend could very well be telling you the truth. You know her best, so the discernment of that is up to you. Has she ever given you any other reason in any general situation in life before this, that she has lied? What was her behavior like prior to having sex with you - nervous, contemplative, curious, etc...? Anything to indicate she already "knows" what it might be like, or to indicate she has no idea?
Also, some people are sexually abused by family and/or friends - stretching and tearing can happen then, as well. When it is 'forced' on you, I don't qualify it as a loss of virginity because the individual's innocence was 'taken', not given. There will be physical consequences, emotional, etc, but healing on all accounts is possible.
It all depends on your situation, her trust in you, your trust in her, and her rep. I hope this has helped.
Personally, I have what is called a "normal hymen". I couldn't find any small elastic type of stretchy skin around my vagina entrance if my life depended on it. It's always been this way ever since I can remember. I'm 22 years and engaged to the most wonderful man I ever hoped to meet.
I always thought the cherry was the roundish lump inside on the front side of the vagina wall (the side the bladder is on). This bled the first time I was fingered. Dr. said that was fine. We stopped when it first started, and I've noticed it changed shape a little after that. Am I right in thinking that lump is the cherry? (It's never changed or moved or "grown", so I assumed it was a natural part of the vagina, and since it was partially round and very smooth, hence why I thought it was the "cherry")
As far your girlfriend lying to you about still being a virgin yet she's not tight anymore, could be because she may be using some sex toys or had used in recent past. If you've fingered her a lot beforehand, that can stretch her out, too. And, just as there is a variety of sizes of penises, there is also a variety of sizes of vaginas. A friend of mine was extremely tight before she got married, to the point where she couldn't even fit a tampon of any size.
I experienced a lot of stretching during some foreplay once, but it regained its tightness after a couple days. Just as tight as I was before.
So, my point is: your girlfriend could very well be telling you the truth. You know her best, so the discernment of that is up to you. Has she ever given you any other reason in any general situation in life before this, that she has lied? What was her behavior like prior to having sex with you - nervous, contemplative, curious, etc...? Anything to indicate she already "knows" what it might be like, or to indicate she has no idea?
Also, some people are sexually abused by family and/or friends - stretching and tearing can happen then, as well. When it is 'forced' on you, I don't qualify it as a loss of virginity because the individual's innocence was 'taken', not given. There will be physical consequences, emotional, etc, but healing on all accounts is possible.
It all depends on your situation, her trust in you, your trust in her, and her rep. I hope this has helped.
To Tell if a woman is tight is easy dude its like a squezing sensation but not tigh tight ;-)
The first time i had sex with my bf was 2 days ago. And he asks me if im cofortable with have intercourse with him. I reply and say yes. We try it and we did not feel nothing the first 3 minutes but then a few minutes later thats when we did.
since u r a doctor, i wana ask u evn if gals wlk or cycle alot do dey break deir virginity???????????
n hw far is d hyme situatd??? whle havng sex can it be brokn easily is it dat near?????
mant times it lost on play games running so not worry
many times it lost on play games running so not worry
yeah it may be she telling lie to u but there may be one reason that her vagina is not tight and didn't bleed first time.ie she may be play with toy mean sex with mock penis........:-|
It is really that important to know if she was virgin or not? If I guy tell me he is a virgin I wouldn't contest. I didn't bleed at all when I had my first time. And I didn't feel any pain. Stop worrying about bulshit.
no one here can spell correctly, I find this hilarious.
I lost my virginity a few months ago, I didn't bleed and I told him not to worry, if you trust her you shouldn't really be big on it. You should trust what she says, not every girl bleeds.
those who f**k girls with other men they neer bleeding thats is not including not virgin i had f**k more than 70 of my girlfrnd but only 20 of them bleed other is not means only those who bleed on 1st sex is known as virgin
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No this is nt neccessary that evry girl is bleedng aftr intercourse first time...
Its harmoinial prblm so sum of the females are bleedng dnt wry b happy njy..:-)
Its harmoinial prblm so sum of the females are bleedng dnt wry b happy njy..:-)