I try to not just lay there but I feel like that's all I really do after he's in me. I do get on top and enjoy that and do oral too. Anal is out so don't suggest it.
Anyway I mean a lot of the time Im laying there and he's just doing what he does and I feels great to me but I feel bad like I'm not doing enough. What can I do?
Also, there is one position that really hurts me. I would casually say I wanted to be on top after a little bit of that, but he would always go back to it after a but. Finally I told him that it really hurts when he does it, and he said he would try again but be gentle... But it still hurt and I told him. So he stopped and said he won't do it anymore. I felt bad though because I feel like he really enjoyed that one, but he said it all feels good and he enjoys others so not to worry. Is he just being sweet? Also, I finally told him that I wish we would take it slower because I get so sore.... Again, I feel bad because I feel like I'm idk being a letdown or something but he said that's fine and we will. Should I just deal with it or was it good that I talked to him about it
No its good to talk to him about it...and madey try other ways you know experment...and try softly clawing his back(some guys like that)..or mess with him body...
Good luck;)
Good luck;)
Run your hands through his hair, claw his back, be vocal; tell him how wet he makes you and how good he feels inside you. Don't be afraid to tell him what you do and don't like, it will make sex better for both of you and I'm sure he'll understand. He's getting to sleep with you. You don't have to feel bad for anything!
My boyfriend likes me to grab his butt cheeks, I also wrap my legs around him when he's on top.
I want my boy freind to have pleasure :( but I don't no how.. What could I do to give him a bit of fun?