I am just writing this in hope to get some answers. My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have had ups and downs like everyone but one thing we always had pride for was each other. No matter what we were together and could laugh joke and love each other. We have 3 children and we both adore them. The other day he woke up and told me that he loves me but doesn't want to be with me anymore. He doesn't want us to leave the house and he won't either; we will sleep in the same bed but not be together. He has become very angry, moody and very tense. I love him with everything I have and I am worried about him and don't want to give up all we have dreamed of, you know the growing old together and all that. I don't know what to do since he won't talk and if I try I am driving him crazy and he goes to bed. He feels as though he has nothing and everything is my fault, I am trying not to take is personally but it is hard. I am 33 and he is 43 just so everyone knows. Could someone please give me some ideas?????? thank you