I and my boyfriend had sex for d first time 3 days ago. . . . it was painful as it was my first time...but even aftr 3 to 4 tries the pain is still d same...i'm nt able 2 enjoy the act...my hymen is still intact...i'm still feeling like a virgin.....please help!! :$ :$
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Hi:
The first time you have intercourse can be painful, However, if your pain is such that you are not able to continue with your normal activities, there could be some trauma to your vagina, especially if your hymen seems to be intact. How old are you? Do you have access to a medical professional. You should not continue trying to have sexual intercourse until your discomfort has gone away. Having sex is your choice, not an obligation to someone elso. You should enjoy is with someone who is committed to you in love as you should be. Get some medical attention, especially if this continues.
The first time you have intercourse can be painful, However, if your pain is such that you are not able to continue with your normal activities, there could be some trauma to your vagina, especially if your hymen seems to be intact. How old are you? Do you have access to a medical professional. You should not continue trying to have sexual intercourse until your discomfort has gone away. Having sex is your choice, not an obligation to someone elso. You should enjoy is with someone who is committed to you in love as you should be. Get some medical attention, especially if this continues.
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How are you doing now? Did you figure out why you were continuing to have so much pain. Do you still feel like you shouldn't remain a virgin. I'm just assuming from your original post that you are not happy being a virgin. FYI: A lot of your women are virgins, and they just lie about it so that they won't be teased. It's not a bad thing, it's a choice. Feel comfortable if that's what you want and not what someone else thinks you shouldn't be. I hope that you are doing well and that you are taking care of yourself.
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oh. thanks 4 ur concern..i'm doing well..well d pain was because i was tensed n nervous n stuff..the pain was actually in my mind..
and d virgin thing..i just wanted 2 enjoy sex..i wanted it to be a good experience n i thought dat losing my virginity was d first step towards enjoying sex!! :-(
anyways now my hymen is just the way it was before and its not painful during intercourse..i'm satisfied!!! :-D
and d virgin thing..i just wanted 2 enjoy sex..i wanted it to be a good experience n i thought dat losing my virginity was d first step towards enjoying sex!! :-(
anyways now my hymen is just the way it was before and its not painful during intercourse..i'm satisfied!!! :-D
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