I had sex for the first time and although there was no pain, I spotted a little bit that night and the next day. I just figured my hymen was stretched and that was fine with me since there was no pain. Now when I use a vibrator, upon penetration about 5 inches or so, there is a pressure there. I thought maybe this was the hymen, but I don't believe so or why this would be happening. I got to thinking that maybe it might be a hymen thing after all... Any ideas?
possibly however a vibrator can cause the vaginal muslces to close due to the stimulation... have a look with a mirror and you will see if it's there or not.
I think that maybe it didn't go in far enough for you to bleed out and I think that you maby doing something wrong for it to happen like that. kizz