I am getting older but sex still freaks me out. Is that normal?
When you say getting older how old are you?
Dear Princess
In what way does sex freak you out? By 'sex' do you mean 'sexual intercourse' or 'sexual activity'? Or even just the thought of either? Are you married?
If you are not married, then it may be because you really want to save sex for marriage. Many do. Perhaps it is the fear of the unknown. Things may well change when the right person comes along. If you are married, then we need to talk about your relationship with your husband, and previous experiences that may have caused you trauma of some sort.
Fill in some of your background, and your 'freaking out' experiences, and perhaps some help can be given.