Well Me and My boyfried been together for a year, I am 17 and he is 19 . We are both young. Well at the being he always made me cum he is the best during sex but after we make 6 months i just coulndt cum no more idk why but i know I love to have sex with him its just So weird, well for him he its always busting it kinda of bothers me because i have to lie to him and tell him that I cum but when I don't so I feel Bad, I just want to know what is wrong with me
Alright, first things first, NEVER lie about having an orgasm. Firstly, because if he thinks he's making you orgasm, he's not gonna try different things, he's just gonna be happy with what he's doing and stay like that, leaving you unsatisfied. Secondly, the longer you wait to tell him the truth, the bigger the blow to his ego. If you wait a year, then tell him he's never made you have an orgasm in that whole year, he's gonna break down and think of himself as being pathetic in the bedroom.
So tell him, right now! >_< With that out of the way, let me ask a few questions.
Has anything happened in the last 6 months that could effect you in a mental or emotional way? Believe it or not, your mental and emotional health can have a huge sway on your sex life. If something's bothering you, stressing you or upsetting you, it could be stopping you having an orgasm. Sounds weird, but it's true.
Has he changed in the past 6 months? Perhaps after being together for the first six months, sex became a little repetative, despite still feeling good. When was the last time you mixed things up in the bedroom, tried a new position, tried oral sex or roleplaying or foreplaying? Keeping things fresh and exciting in the bedroom and introducing your body to new sensations every so often can really help you reach new hights and find those special sexual things that really drive you over the edge. In a good way!
The first step to solving your problem is letting him know that there is a problem. It'll probably be ahrd after 6 months of telling fibs, but you have to do it sooner rather than later. After that, try cahnging how you have sex. Have it more often, so that you can enjoy it more often. Or have sex less often, so when it does happen, it's twice as enjoyable as you've had to wait for it.
Try having longer sessions of sex. Does he finish quickly? Maybe you just need some more time to hit orgasm. Rememebr, if he thinks you're getting off in the time it takes him to finish, he's not gonna try to last longer as he doesn't know the truth...
Maybe you have a fantasy? Sexual fantasies are a regular part of any persons life, and there's no such thing as a Normal sexual fantasy. Trust me.
Heck, it could just be that you have a minor problem. I don't mean that in a bad way, but if it's been 6 months sicne you had an orgasm and nothing in your sex life's changed, maybe a visit to the doctors could prove fruitful?
I can't stress enough how important it is that you tell your boyfriend the truth. I've given my tupence, and dare to say a few others have replied in the time it's taken me to write this with some helpful information, so best of luck in the future :P
So tell him, right now! >_< With that out of the way, let me ask a few questions.
Has anything happened in the last 6 months that could effect you in a mental or emotional way? Believe it or not, your mental and emotional health can have a huge sway on your sex life. If something's bothering you, stressing you or upsetting you, it could be stopping you having an orgasm. Sounds weird, but it's true.
Has he changed in the past 6 months? Perhaps after being together for the first six months, sex became a little repetative, despite still feeling good. When was the last time you mixed things up in the bedroom, tried a new position, tried oral sex or roleplaying or foreplaying? Keeping things fresh and exciting in the bedroom and introducing your body to new sensations every so often can really help you reach new hights and find those special sexual things that really drive you over the edge. In a good way!
The first step to solving your problem is letting him know that there is a problem. It'll probably be ahrd after 6 months of telling fibs, but you have to do it sooner rather than later. After that, try cahnging how you have sex. Have it more often, so that you can enjoy it more often. Or have sex less often, so when it does happen, it's twice as enjoyable as you've had to wait for it.
Try having longer sessions of sex. Does he finish quickly? Maybe you just need some more time to hit orgasm. Rememebr, if he thinks you're getting off in the time it takes him to finish, he's not gonna try to last longer as he doesn't know the truth...
Maybe you have a fantasy? Sexual fantasies are a regular part of any persons life, and there's no such thing as a Normal sexual fantasy. Trust me.
Heck, it could just be that you have a minor problem. I don't mean that in a bad way, but if it's been 6 months sicne you had an orgasm and nothing in your sex life's changed, maybe a visit to the doctors could prove fruitful?
I can't stress enough how important it is that you tell your boyfriend the truth. I've given my tupence, and dare to say a few others have replied in the time it's taken me to write this with some helpful information, so best of luck in the future :P